In our modern society with its seemingly endless supply of fast food and junk food, it seems obvious to most why we’re dealing with an obesity epidemic. Cheap, low-quality food surrounds us, and there’s not enough time in the world to exercise away all the excess calories that exist in our food supply.
However, those of us in the Paleo and ancestral health community seem to have a different problem altogether. It’s one that I’ve seen in dozens of clients.
This problem is chronic under-eating.
Are you an under-eater? Learn the most common signs and symptoms of a too-low calorie intake. #calorieintake #undereating #optimalonutrition
Why Under-Eating Is so Common
Yes, I said under-eating, not overeating. While most people would find it hard to believe that many of the health problems people experience when going Paleo are from a lack of calories and appropriate macronutrients, I’ve seen it in my private practice countless times; clients who were experiencing mysterious, nagging symptoms that suddenly disappeared when we evaluated and corrected their daily food intake.
I’ve even seen clients who couldn’t lose weight that were suddenly able to do so after realizing they weren’t eating enough and increasing their food intake. Quite the opposite of the “calories-in-calories-out” mentality!
Why is under-eating so common? It can happen for a number of reasons:
- A restricted diet
- Above average activity levels
- Stress
- Fear of certain foods and food groups
- Busyness
- Chronic dieting
- Pregnancy/breastfeeding
Could something as simple as under-eating be causing your health problems? Could inadequate food intake be the reason why your Paleo diet suddenly isn’t working for you anymore? Is your “rapid weight loss” diet plan the reason your jeans are getting tighter instead of looser?
Better supplementation. Fewer supplements.
Close the nutrient gap to feel and perform your best.
A daily stack of supplements designed to meet your most critical needs.
Signs and Symptoms of Under-eating
Below are the top eight signs and symptoms I see in my clients who are chronically under-eating. Read on to discover if you might simply need some more food to start feeling better today.
1. Your Weight Isn’t Budging
This is one of the most paradoxical symptoms of someone who is under-eating, and it often goes hand in hand with overtraining. You might be surprised to hear that I’ve rarely worked with a weight loss client who was blatantly overeating. In fact, many of my clients come to me on extremely low-calorie diets (around 1,000 to 1,200 calories per day) combined with six to seven days per week of intense exercise like CrossFit or long-distance running.
For good reason, they are extremely frustrated that their weight isn’t changing; for some of these clients, their weight has actually been increasing since they dropped their food intake and started working out more. Many of these clients are also eating a very low-carbohydrate diet with the goal of losing weight quickly.
We’ve been trained to believe that the body is a machine, and we can input and output our calories in a way that will cause weight loss. So it’s understandable why these clients would expect to see weight loss from a significant caloric deficit like that. But the fact is, they simply can’t lose the last 15 to 30 pounds no matter how little they eat. Why is this?
While a short-term, moderate caloric deficit can lead to sustainable weight loss (think 300 to 500 calories per day), much larger deficits induce changes in your body’s metabolism in order to keep your body in a homeostatic balance. Your body does not like major, drastic changes, and it will make modifications to your thyroid, adrenal, and sex hormones in order to reduce your overall caloric output.
These changes include reducing active thyroid hormone, shutting down sex hormone production, and raising stress hormones like cortisol. (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) Chronically elevated cortisol leads to both leptin and insulin resistance, a disastrous hormonal state that can keep body weight high. (6, 7)
These hormonal changes can lead to stalled weight loss and body fat retention, along with many other negative health effects that go beyond weight loss resistance. So, if you’ve been eating much less and exercising much more in a futile attempt to lose weight, consider whether this strategy has been working for you.
2. You Can’t Get Pregnant
Scientists have known for a long time that low-calorie dieting and inadequate body fat can lead to infertility and amenorrhea in women. (8) One of the most commonly seen manifestations of this problem is known as hypothalamic amenorrhea, which is hallmarked by menstrual irregularity or amenorrhea and low energy availability, with or without an eating disorder. (9)
Menstrual irregularity doesn’t necessarily mean a missed period; it can simply mean a woman is having an anovulatory cycle, meaning there is no egg released during the ovulatory period.
Hypothalamic amenorrhea caused by chronic caloric deprivation is also associated with physiological changes like hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal (HPA) axis overactivity (also known as adrenal fatigue) and disturbances in the hypothalamic–pituitary–thyroid axis (also known as euthyroid sick syndrome).
I’ve worked with many clients who recovered their period after returning to a normal caloric intake. I’ve even had one client who was finally able to get pregnant when she switched to a higher-calorie ancestral diet, after her doctors told her she’d always be infertile.
So, if you’ve been struggling to get pregnant, and you have a history of dieting and exercising for weight loss, it’s possible that your low-calorie diet is preventing you from getting pregnant.
3. Your Blood Sugar Is on a Roller Coaster
While many people blame excessive carbohydrate consumption for wild blood sugar swings, you might be surprised to learn that inadequate calorie consumption can cause just as many issues with blood sugar control. The most common issue that comes from chronic under-eating is hypoglycemia, or low blood sugar.
Hypoglycemia is defined as blood sugar below 70 mg/dL, though some people experience symptoms at higher blood sugar levels. Common symptoms of hypoglycemia include:
- Hunger
- Shakiness
- Anxiety
- Dizziness
- Sweating
- Weakness
- Confusion
- Changes in mood
Severe under-eating can easily cause hypoglycemia, especially when combined with exercise. (10) And because many people feel better eating sugary foods when they’re hypoglycemic, this can lead to the common cycle of high and low blood sugar swings that cause chronic dieters to overeat or binge on junk foods.
This is yet another reason that the most sustainable diet for weight loss provides adequate calories to keep your hormones and blood sugar even-keeled.
4. Your Mood Is Totally Unpredictable
Have you ever heard the term “hangry” before?
It refers to the state of anger and irritability resulting from being hungry. And even though it’s a made-up term, there’s actually scientific evidence for the existence of this volatile emotional state caused by inadequate food intake. (11)
As I mentioned earlier, lack of eating enough food can lead to hypoglycemia, or low blood sugar. Since the brain requires blood sugar to function optimally, when it starts to drop, one of the first cognitive processes that suffers is self-control. (12) Your ability to exert self-control allows you to:
- Focus your attention
- Regulate your emotions
- Cope with stress
- Resist impulsivity
- Refrain from aggressive behavior
So, if you’re always on a short fuse, or your mood is constantly swinging between cheerful and irritable or anxious, make sure that you’re not severely under-eating before making any other significant changes to your diet and supplement or medication routine.
5. You Can’t Fall Asleep (Or Stay Asleep)
Insomnia and other sleep disturbances are one of the top health complaints my clients come to me for help fixing. This is especially common in peri-menopausal women who seem to be especially prone to poor sleep despite generally good sleep hygiene and a health-conscious lifestyle.
Oddly enough, one of the first symptoms that changes when I get my clients eating a more calorically appropriate diet is a significant improvement in sleep duration and quality. Even if they weren’t necessarily waking up hungry, many of my clients find that an increased calorie intake (especially from carbohydrates) can lead them to fall asleep faster and stop waking up at night.
One reason for this likely comes from the improved blood sugar control that arises from an appropriate calorie and carbohydrate intake. As your blood sugar drops overnight, your liver must release its stored glucose (in the form of glycogen) to keep your blood sugar steady.
If you’re constantly under-eating, especially if you’re overexercising on top of that, your liver won’t have the glycogen stores it needs to keep your blood sugar stable. In this case, your body must release stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline to promote gluconeogenesis, the process of creating new glucose. If these stress hormones elevate high enough, they can actually wake you up in the middle of the night.
Making sure you’re eating enough overall and potentially including a carb- and fat-dense bedtime snack one to two hours before going to sleep can help keep your blood sugar stable overnight, leading to more restful, uninterrupted sleep.
Some of my favorite examples of balanced snacks are:
- An apple and 1 to 2 TB of nut butter
- Half a sweet potato and 1 TB of butter or ghee
- Berries and coconut milk
- A banana and 1 ounce of macadamia nuts
- Full-fat yogurt with a drizzle of honey
6. You’re Chronically Constipated
There are a few reasons why chronic under-eating can cause constipation. The most obvious is that feces is made up of waste matter from the digestion of food, so if you’re not getting enough food, your stool won’t have much bulk to it.
The less obvious but more likely reason that under-eating can lead to constipation is due to the effects of undernutrition on thyroid hormone. As I discussed previously, under-eating causes a downregulation of T3, the active thyroid hormone. This can lead to a condition called euthyroid sick syndrome, where T3 is low, reverse T3 is high, and thyroid-stimulating hormone and T4 are often normal. In this condition, your body develops hypothyroidism symptoms without necessarily showing any change in the typical thyroid function markers that most doctors check.
Constipation is a very common symptom of hypothyroidism. Active thyroid hormone helps stimulate peristalsis in the gut, keeping digestion humming along smoothly. When T3 drops, gut motility slows, and this can lead to chronic constipation. So, if you’re having a bowel movement only every couple of days, check your caloric intake and make sure you’re not under-eating.
Free eBook
Learn More about Thyroid Health
A thyroid disorder could be the cause of some of your biggest health problems. Download this free eBook to find out more about thyroid health.
"*" indicates required fields
I hate spam, too. Your email is safe with me. By signing up, you agree to our privacy policy.
7. You’re Always Cold
Caloric restriction is known to cause a drop in body temperature. (13) While some calorie-restriction proponents suggest that this is a sign of expected longevity, my clients’ (and my own) experience dictates that this is not a comfortable way to live on a daily basis. Whether or not this extends our life span, who wants to constantly feel frigid on a daily basis? Not me, and I’d bet not you either.
A lowered body temperature can be due to a decrease in thermogenesis, since your body needs a certain amount of ingested calories to create heat, as well as due to the hormonal changes that come from caloric restriction, such as thyroid hormone reduction and HPA axis disruption. Low insulin can also lead to low body temperature, so some people on a very-low-carbohydrate diet will experience this symptom, as well. (14)
I may sound like a broken record at this point, but if you’re always cold, even in the summertime, it’s highly likely that you’re not getting enough to eat.
8. You’re Losing Hair by the Handful
Hair loss is one of the first signs of nutritional deficiency, whether that be calories, protein, or both. It is exacerbated by the hormonal changes that develop from chronic under-eating, including a drop in sex hormones like progesterone, testosterone, and estrogen. (15, 16) Hair loss is another common symptom of hypothyroidism, which, as you’ve learned, can develop from long-term calorie restriction.
If your hair is falling out at a scarily fast rate, you need to take a hard look at your diet. Consuming a calorically appropriate, protein-rich, nutrient-dense whole foods diet should be the first step for anyone who wants to stop hair loss in its tracks.
Like what you’re reading? Get my free newsletter, recipes, eBooks, product recommendations, and more!
How Do You Stop Under-Eating and Improve Calorie Intake?
Determining exactly how many calories you need to eat on a daily basis for optimal health and weight control is tricky. Many factors come into play, including your physical activity, stress levels, sleep adequacy, history of chronic disease, and more. It’s impossible to know exactly how many calories your body needs on a daily basis, but there are some ways to estimate what you should be eating.
A quick and easy way to roughly estimate your “basement” calorie target—the lowest amount of calories you should ever eat—is to multiply your ideal body weight by 10. A woman who is 5’5” has an “ideal” body weight of around 125 pounds, so she should not eat less than 1,250 calories per day. Use this calculator to determine your “ideal” body weight. (Note: this calculator does not take into account frame size or muscle mass—that’s why I put “ideal” in quotes.)
It’s important to note that this quick estimate is a “sedentary” formula, meaning it does not take into account any physical activity beyond sitting and standing. If you’re exercising regularly, you’ll need to add at least 200 to 400 calories on top of that number. That same 5’5” woman might burn around 300 calories or more from a 30-minute run, taking her minimum calorie needs up to 1,550 calories per day, assuming she doesn’t do any other exercise that day.
Different workouts burn different amounts of calories. A CrossFit WOD can burn 12 to 20 calories per minute on average, so a WOD that takes 20 minutes could burn 240 to 400 calories. (17) If you’re aiming for a high step count, 10,000 steps burns around 300 to 500 calories, give or take, depending on body size and gender.
These are just examples of common exercise types in the Paleo community, and the point is to be aware that if you’re a highly active individual, your calorie needs will go up by several hundred calories per day above the “10 x ideal weight” formula.
Another common factor that will raise your caloric needs is if you are a breastfeeding woman. Many of my female clients are shocked to hear that breastfeeding can raise your caloric expenditure by 500 calories per day or more. (18) So breastfeeding women need at least 300 calories per day above and beyond other women who are not breastfeeding, and that’s only if they have extra weight to lose postpartum.
So what does this calorie target exercise look like in practice? Using myself as an example, my “ideal” body weight is about 140 pounds, and I usually burn around 400 to 500 calories via exercise per day, so I try not to eat below 1,800 calories, especially on heavier training days, where I may eat more like 2,000 to 2,200 total. Your mileage may vary, but it’s a pretty easy place to start from, and you can tweak up and down as necessary as your health and weight fluctuates.
Alternatively, you can use this calculator to estimate your daily calorie needs based on your age, gender, height, weight, and activity level.
As you can see, determining caloric needs can get somewhat complicated, especially with the goal of weight loss thrown into the mix. When I work with clients, my goal is to get them on the least restrictive, most calorically appropriate diet possible. It’s amazing to see the health improvements that come from a simple increase in caloric intake when someone has been chronically under-eating.
If you need help figuring out the right calorie intake for you, let me help you to determine the best diet to keep you feeling and looking your best, without unnecessary restriction or starvation dieting.
Remember, eating too little is just as unhealthy as eating too much. Find the right amount of food intake that works best for you, and don’t be afraid to experiment with eating more if your health isn’t where you want it to be!
Hi, I just recently weighed myself and I use to be 116lbs and now im only 100lbs. I lost this in a week. Im 14, am about 5′ 1.5″ im worried because I get the chills constantly. I dont use the bathroom very often. And I only eat breakfast and lunch on the weekends. I have more stress than an average teen because of the college prep classes I have. Im also late for my period. Could me being underweight be the cause of all this?
Sounds like you have an eating disorder.
While 100 lbs is perfectly healthy for your age and height, it is a little alarming that you seem to have lost this in a week. If you aren’t actively trying to lose it sounds like you are consuming way too few calories. The chills and constipation should set off an alarm too. I always recommend the services of a nutritionist if you (or your parents in your case) can afford it, but it’s also completely possible to work out a menu plan on your own too. Good luck! I hope you start feeling better.
I don’t think you know how much this is going to change my life
Everything you describe has been my symptoms for over 2 years, my teeth have rotted and my hair is awful. I was always known as having the clearest of skin, and I have suffered with abyss acne for the last few years. I never thought it was a case of under eating because of how big, bloated and fat I became, it seemed the less I ate the bigger I got.
I am almost 16, 5,5 ft and I weight about 137 pounds. For the past few months, I’ve been trying to eat a lot healthier, I always eat a big breakfast (usually eggs with toast and fruit) and then, drink lots of water, eat lots of vegetables, almost no junk food, and I exercise around 5 days per week. I’ve been consuming between 1400-1600 calories a day, which I think balances to 1200-1400 with the exercise. Somehow, I’ve only lost about 4 pounds since I started 5 months ago, and my symptoms include dizziness, shortness of breath, insomnia, and coldness. I don’t think I’m over doing it, so could my symptoms be related to anxiety as well? I’m not diagnosed but I tend to be extremely nervous and worried… I’m not sure what to do because I want a competitive tennis player but I don’t have the confidence to feel like a real athlete at my current weight. Please help?
I think You may want to eat a little more than what you are currently at. Think about how much you walk in a day and how many calories that consumes on its own. Given your weight/ height and age, you should never consume less than 1250 calories a day, even if you literally don’t get out of bed in the day. All of your symptoms can be caused by not eating enough, even anxiety. What are you doing for exercise 5 days a week? Do you walk a lot throughout the day? Your best bet would be to buy some sort of fitness tracker, preferably one with a heart rate monitor. This will track how many steps/how active you are and give you a better idea of how much you should eat. You could also use a calorie tracker like My Fitness Pal and track how much you eat. I currently have a FitBit HR that tracks my heart rate and how many steps I take in a day. I use the app on my phone and I also use My Fitness Pal to track my calories. The best part about the two apps is that you can sync them together. My FitBit counts how active I am and then syncs with My Fitness Pal and tells me how many calories I burned and how many more I can eat. Fit bit devices can get pretty expensive, mine was $130 I believe, but its not a bad investment when it comes to your health. Your parents may be willing to help you buy one. You also want to make sure you eat enough protein. Muscle burns fat, the only way to get rid of fat is to build muscle. Don’t worry about getting ‘ripped’ or looking like a man. A woman’s body can’t grow to look like a man’s without hormones. Many women are afraid to lift weights because they don’t want to get bulky. Cardio alone may help you lose weight, but lifting weights and building muscle is the only way to keep it off. Also, if you are not eating enough protein, your body will eat your muscles. you may be experiencing muscle weight loss and not actual fat loss. And as I said earlier, muscle burns fat, without any muscle you can not lose fat. On another note, tennis burns a crazy amount of calories, make sure you eat enough to cover those calories.
How does your weight affect your ability as a tennis player? Serena Williams is 5’9″, weighs at least 155 pounds (per her bio) and is currently the number one women’s tennis player in the world.
Unless by “weight” OP is referring to her BFP maybe? Haha that reads snarky and I really don’t mean it that way. Just curious.
I am in my mid 40’s and in my early 20’s I lost over 100lbs and I’ve managed to keep it all off all these years through working out and diet.
For many years my only exercise was walking on my treadmill and that worked well for me.
About 7 years ago I started doing workout videos and doing some weights and have progressed but over the last 3 years things have been sorta a struggle.
My cycles are regular but libido is ZERO (null), I cannot sleep more than 2-3 hours a night (and I work FT) and sometimes I go 2-3 days with NO sleep. My heart rate goes up, eyes bounce, I try deep breathing and everything in between and nothing works PLUS it is VERY hard for me to lose a few pounds if I’m getting ready for a function.
I feel I have fallen into the exercise more (and more) and eat less. I finally figured out my calorie intake on MyFitnessPal and I’m right about 900-1300 depending on the day and I do have one splurge meal a week most my (MEASURED MEALS) meals are very clean, egg whites, spinach, squash, sweet potato, quinoa, green beans, chicken breast, tuna, white fish, I do not eat cheese or milk. So, fast forward, I did a new Beachbody program, pushed myself hard and at the end of 60 days, I was no further than the day I started, I NEED to turn to diet, I think I need to eat more but telling someone that used to be over 100lbs over weight to eat more when I want to lose a few pounds is not easy.
I think I’ve been in a deficient for too long, is this even repairable? I feel I am “broke” forever? I WANT to fix this and have been upping my calories the last few days and reading and researching. I would love to know if I am in the right direction? How long will it take to ‘fix ‘ this? But, the last few days at a higher calorie I have slept a little longer which is a great surprise but, that’s not to say I am still in fear of gaining from eating too much?
I am 5’8 and 155 right now, feel best at 145. I SIT all day at work but I do 50-70min of exercise 6 days a week and take one day off, the exercise I do is not “easy”, lots of squats, weight lifting, some days is cardio with weights and some days are all weights.
Can you help me? Thank you!
First and foremost please go to the nearest hospital and get your blood, liver, kidneys, urine, testosterone checked if it’s normal.
Please reduce your activity and increase your food intake.
If you are afraid of increase in weight then just follow a diabetic diet or a slow carb diet..
Do weights three times a week, focus on strength rather than endurance. Do more core workouts
Do cardio twice a week but never on a treadmill…walk in a park or beach or whatever… Keep it natural.
Increase your testosterone by eating nuts and red meat and saturated fat…
The most important thing is to feel like a million dollars every morning.
Wow. What Tami described above is exactly me. I also am doing a 60 day challenge by beach body… My measurements are going up!
I have had all my blood work done in the past and I am healthy!
I sympathize 100%
Hi , im 16 and 17 on 17 march
Im 159 cm and weight 42,5 kg
I eat around 700 kcal a day for 4 months and i struggel to get all my meals in body and feel extremely bloated event After eating a piece of brocolie and 30g meat
My legs and arms are skinny bit my belly gets fatter and fatter and when i eat only 50 above 700 kcal i gain weight what must i do? Is my huge belly due to undereating?
Hi Jeanique
It sounds like you are definitely under eating. You are very light in weight for your height and the reason you are putting on weight when you eat is most probably because your body is not happy at the weight you are at. The body is an amazing machine that will tell you when it is not happy.
You will feel so much better if you eat more food. To keep healthy make sure you are eating real food eg cooked meat, eggs (if you are not intolerant) vegetables and fruit. Some vegetables may not suit you. Broccoli and other sulphur producing foods like cabbage can cause bloating.
At your age you may still be growing so it is important that you support your body during this time and give it the additional calories to make sure your body can grow. Healthy fats like olive oil and coconut oil and eating almonds will all help. Stay away from processed foods and soda drinks as although they may taste nice they are not good for you. If you are only eating 1,000 calories it is best if they are packed full of nutrients and not just empty sugary calories.
I hope that helps.
Thanks so much for your advice , you to opened my eyes with Chriss and saved mefrom even more severe damage , recovery is gonna be tough but i m gratefull for youre advice 🙂
Jeanique,
Please listen to other people’s advice. You need to eat more. I cannot stress this enough.
Anna has some good advice above on the types of healthy foods you should be eating. Healthy fats from olive oil and nuts are very calorie dense even if their foods don’t have much mass. One tablespoon of oilive oil drizzled over your meat or on a piece of bread will give you 140 more calories. It goes down like nothing and can help you reach a healthy calorie target for the day.
700 calories is quite simply not enough for anyone to survive. And no, you are not “gaining weight” on 750 calories. That’s still starvation level, and you should probably be eating more than 1,700 calories every day just to put down as many as the average woman. 1,700 calories is NOT a lot. People don’t get fat eating 1,700 calories each day in healthy foods.
Some of the things you described in your post were extremely concerning to me because it sounded as if you might have an eating disorder and severe malnutrition.
There is no way you should feel bloated after one piece of broccoli and one ounce of meat. I don’t know why you’re even measuring a single ounce because a standard serving of meat is 4 oz. One ounce is about two bites. It’s not even 50 calories.
I did some Googling and a symptom of starvation is that you feel full really quick. That’s because your digestive system is deteriorating and the food stays inside your body longer than it should.
Another symptom of severe malnutrition and protein deficiency is a very thin body with a bloated belly. This is not you gaining fat (you’re way on the other extreme from fat). This is your famished body retaining water in your belly because it’s barely hanging on. The skinny body, bloated belly look is well known among starving children in Africa.
It seems that your body has lost the ability to properly judge its food intake. Do not trust that feeling of “fullness” after just one small bite. You can’t trust your body’s judgment for now so please trust in others. Talk to your parents and a doctor and tell them you have a problem with eating. Eat with others and take in as much food as they do. Trust in science, which has established that normal people need to be eating closer to 2,000 calories a day instead of a mere 700.
Remember that you are NOT fat. You are dangerously underweight, so much that if you packed on 25 lbs you might be the weight of a “thin” runway model or actress.
Seek help, and remember that you NEED to eat. This is your own health and your own life on the line.
Chris
Thank you so much , what you said really opened my eyes you reallly gave me the advice i searched for a long time , thanks to you i finnaly felt free to talk about my eating dissordr with my dad amd we will as soon as possible be searching for a professional to help me with my nutrition recovery as well as my self esteem recovery and i know its going to be tough
But i don t know how to thank you enough because i tried to ask so many people , had no response and my own ex dietitiam said that my belly problem was impossible to come from malnutrition thanks again for opening my eyes and saving me from even more severe health problems
SO health. big word for me. where do I start off. I’m kind of confused about my health because idk if im eating right or if im screwing up my life the way im eating. first off I don’t eat breakfeast or lunch. I sometimes eat dinner. I go out on the weekends and mostly eat dinner only or once an a while i’ll buy a bag of chips to snack on. My weight hasn’t really changed from the last time that I have checked I think I weigh 130 and im 5’4 so idk whether that is healthy or not. I try not to eat during the day because I don’t like it when people look at me when I eat. I don’t eat in public because I feel like people are staring at me. I also haven’t been able to sleep lately because I have been thinking about stuff all night so I go to bed, cant sleep, and then wake up early. I haven’t felt the hunger in my stomach lately but I did vomit 3 weeks ago but it hurt a lot because I had nothing in my stomach. How are my eating habits guys? help me!
Maybe try thinking about what you will eat for breakfast or even make a meal the evening before? Maybe that way you would be more motivated to eat the breakfast.
It sounds like you have social anxiety around food if you don’t like eating around other people.
The less you eat the more your stomach will shrink so you may not feel hungry but your body still needs to be nourished. Most people say that you should have at least two meals per day so breakfast is most probably a good one if you can have it on your own. Try frying a bit of bacon – most people can’t resist the smell 🙂 Or a ‘bullet proof coffee’ (If you haven’t heard of it try Googling it). Then make sure you have a really healthy and plentiful evening meal. Could you take some nuts such as almonds and walnuts with you so that you can snack on them when you are alone? As you eat more you will find your appetite returning and you will begin to enjoy food more.
This was an interesting read and the comments even more so! I was just wondering if since I have been on a 1200 calorie diet for two weeks it would cause a loss of menses that quickly? I’m not pregnant and have had uber regular periods but am now 8 days late and cannot figure out any other reason..I am 5’8 and lost about 1.8 lbs last week. I am not underweight -more on the other end at 178.. Aiming for around 160. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
I’m trying lose about 5 kgs so i started tracking how many calories i’m eating. Im 15 years old female, 155cm and 52 kgs. And i wanted to eat healthier, so i used a calculator to find out how many calories i should eat per day and i got 1110 calories a day. So i start tracking how much i eat a day and i only come to about 700 calories a day. I wasn’t hungry thro, and i wanted to meet my 1110 cal per day but couldn’t. I workout for an hour and 20 minutes a day, 1 hour of HIIT and 2o minutes of squats, pushups and stuff. I really want to lose 6kgs/12pounds before the 26th of march because I’m going on holiday to japan and want to feel more comfortable in photos cause my mum loves to take heaps of pictures of me but i have felt uncomfortable in them because of my largish thighs and stomach. Any tips to lose 6kgs/ 12ish pounds in about 10 weeks? Also my older brother is about 45kgs and 160cm tall and needs to gain muscle weight i wanna help him out, anyone know what to do about that? he’s underweight, eats maybe 2200 cal a day, he’s really skinny, makes me kinda jealous to be honest.
Someone help me! please?!?!!?
Vanilla, at 15 years old your body is still doing a great amount of growing and developing. I’m not sure which calculator you used but 1,110 calories is far, far too low for you. I don’t even need to know what your weight is, that’s just too low. A healthier amount would be over 2,000 calories, and as you’ve only been eating 700 calories and exercising quite a lot, you will need more calories than that to help your body recover from the energy deficit. I’m afraid that your lack of appetite and your feelings of anxiety about your body may very well be the result of the severe calorie deficit you are in. I’ve known many people who experienced great anxiety while under-eating and over-exercising, always believing that their anxiety would stop as soon as they achieved the “right” weight or size. But in truth, the more deprived you are of calories and nutrients, the worse and worse your anxiety will become. You will only become sicker if you continue to eat so little.
Wait melissa, according to her height, age and weight I’m very underweight! I’m 14, 159 cm tall and weight 42 kg. (I have some things the website describes.) My doctor never says it’s unhealthy… I would describe my body as: skinny arms and upper body, normal legs and waist (but on the slim side), if I compare it to students my age in school.
Vanilla, I don’t see myself as skinny but I know I am, and I’m very uncomfortable with it. Remember that skinny girls can feel the same way as you do! I don’t know if that will help, but I wanted you to know. Don’t worry, I’m sure you’re very pretty <3
(sorry for any grammar flaws, I'm dutch)
The idea that you’re not losing weight because your calories are too low is utter nonsense.
If you do not consume what your body needs to meet basic functions and meet your energy needs you will lose weight the entire time until you either eat more or die.
You can’t beat your physiology. There is a reason you’ll starve to death if you don’t eat.
Dieting to get really lean is simply controlled starvation.
Metabolic adaptation can only go so far.
I know 210 lbs guys who at 900 cals a day for 4 weeks. Guess what happened? They got shredded.
Wasn’t fun but they sure as hell didn’t maintain their weight.
I’ve been eating 1200 calories for two weeks, my maintenance calories is 2075 and I work out 5 days a week doing spin class which, for my size, should be burning around 580 calories. So if your statement as true, I should be pouring off the weight, correct? I’m just wondering what sort of education or personal experience you have that entitles you to have such a strong opinion on the matter?
It actually is true.. If you are at a deficit you will lose weight. If your maintenance calories are truly2075 and you are eating 1200 then you would be losing weight, but bear in mind that as you get lighter, your maintenance calories decrease as well. It could also be that your maintenance is not truly 2075- I could plug my I information into every calculator in the world and they would all say my TDEE is 1600-1900 calories a day but in reality my BMR is just much too low for that.
Weight could also be things other than fat. If someone is chronically constipated or retaining water because of not eating enough nutrients, then he or she may be losing fat but retaining weight in other forms- the scale wouldn’t budge at all that way
I am trying to wrap my head around this. I am 5’3 120lbs and have cellulite and soft areas that I want to tone and look leaner. I do cardio 4x/wk 35min and about 1 1/2hr weight training 4/5x/wk. My calorie intake always is at 1200 and normal carb days (100g carbs) and 8-900 on low carb (50g carbs) days as I try to carb cycle my always keep my fat and protein high. I’ve lost no weight and gotten no tone and have been doing this diet for a bout a yr, I’ve always exercised. I’ve recently started having a great deal of GI issues and food intolerances such as extreme bloating and stomach pain after dairy or leafy greens so have cut them out, but want to be able to eat them again. Could my diet really be the cause of me not losing weight or toning? I’m terrified to eat more thinking if I’m not losing weight eating this way that I’ll defi gain weight if I add more carbs and calories. Help please.
Hello! I am a competitive swimmer on a team for about 7 years. We workout 2 hours each day. I eat around 1,200-1,400 calories each day. If I try to eat more I feel like I’m overeating and then I feel sort of guilty. I have noticed that my menstrual cycle has stopped for almost a year and lots of hair is falling out. For the past month I have been trying to eat more, and the calculator says I should eat more and I could maintain the same weight. However, I noticed that I have gained weight even though I haven’t reached my calorie intake limit. I am still missing my period, but i think I have gained weight. I really want to mantain my weight but I don’t understand what my calorie intake should be. Help
Hi this article really caught my eye and made me realize just how much I under eat! I’m a 15 year old female weighing in at 100.6 pounds. (BMI is 119-128)
Being a highschool student, I usually skip breakfast and sometimes lunch (only school days) to study, and usually only eat a small bowl of rice or pasta and/or other side dishes (a bit of fish, soup, eggs, etc.) for dinner. A lot of the symptoms describe me: always cold, not falling asleep until 1-2am, getting hangry. I am also constantly craving food but I had always chalked this up to my high metabolism, not under eating. Lately, I’ve also been feeling a slight urge to throw up whenever I eat food or think of eating it but I don’t know if it is because of stress or not. I am looking for foods to increase my calorie intake as well as stop the symptoms.
Any suggestions?
You’re under eating, Definitelyyyyyy.
Some healthy foods to boost that:
-peanuts, almonds, cashews (and nut butters)
-milkshakes (homemade with whole milk or organic ice cream or full fat yogurt)
-whole grain bread or rye bread
-oatmeal or muesli
-eggs, chicken, good meats (not sausages or bacon)
-avocado, pineapple, apples, cherries, raisins
Wherever you can, use oil and butter (not margarine) to cook with.
Make sure your food doesn’t have any nasty chemicals or weird stuff added. Also try some muscle building exercises.
Good luck!
I don’t know what to do I’m NASHOUS and feel tired and sick I’m 11 and not eating what should I do
Hi, this is a bit weird for me, seeing as im not on a diet, nor have i ever had a problem with undereating.
However, I’m a male, 14, and I noticed that I was starving but couldn’t force food down my throat.
In the last month I’ve eaten a lot more simple carbs than anything else which is a problem, but even that i can hardly eat.
Anyways i noticed a large number of these apply to me (not the pregnant, or insomnia one, which was actually the opposite for me.) I was hoping for maybe an answer from you that isnt something i know, or whether its exactly what i think it is.
Cheers!
Keenan
Hi Keenan
You should never have to ‘force’ food down your throat. Eating should be pleasurable. If you are only eating simple carbs (I presume you mean sugary snacks) your body may be asking for healthier food and you will feel better if you could eat some healthier foods. Try a couple of good meals and see how you feel.
Hello, I’m seventeen and recently I’ve gotten into the habit of under-eating provoked by my GED (general anxiety disorder). I’m one of those people that when stressed, can’t really eat and though I’ve started to eat more, I still have days where I actually forget. I used to never have this problem because I’ve always loved food. I know I didn’t eat as much between the ages of 11-13, but I don’t recall it ever causing an issue such as affecting my sleep. Sometimes I’ll miss breakfast and before I know it, it’s 5pm and I’ve had nothing more than a pb&j. I know my issue is food and anxiety-related, because when I do eat more, I sleep much better. My main disruption is waking up sometimes hungry. I’m 5’8″ and stay between 130-150 weight, sometimes higher. My anxiety has actually been declining, as I’m taking action to solve it. I’ve had it for two years so I’m a little confused as to why food would only start to affect me now.
Hi Tray
It sounds as though you are doing well with your anxiety. As you most probably know anxiety can ebb and flow and can pop up in different places. Just when you think you’re OK with something the anxiety will surface somewhere else. At least you understand what you should be doing so hopefully by eating healthily, when you remember, will help with the anxiety too.
Hey I figure I have a eating problem but I don’t really know why. I don’t eat lunch and I eat very little for supper. Even when im hungry food just doesn’t appeal to me and I usually only eat when I’m starving. I’ve tried eating at lunch but I end up feeling shaky and sick feeling. I wonder if its coming from parent problems or something but I’ve been like this since September and I still don’t really know why. I’m happy with my weight but I am a picky eater. I hope you can help this make a little more since to me, thanks.
Try eating lunch with a friend. Perhaps your heart needs to be fed in the middle of the day, as well as your body!
I will go a whole day without eating most of the time or some days I will only eat once. When I do eat I don’t eat much and then a few hours later I’ll be hungry again but I won’t especially if I’ll eat dinner and be hungry around ten and I’m trying to sleep but can’t. I usually don’t fall asleep until two or three am and I’m tired the next day. I have never been sick after not eating a whole day but I didn’t eat at all the other day and I’ve had a migraine for three days and I felt like I was going to vomit everytime I tried to eat. I made myself eat today but I still felt sick. I’m 5’3 and weigh between 130 and 140, I walk every day and I’ve been losing a lot of weight. Y clothes don’t even fit anymore. But I’ve nevereeaten much and I’m usually not ever hungry so I won’t eat if I’m not hungry. What should I do about this?
You might try sipping a glass of water slowly before eating. Take your time, sit down and sip. Enjoy the company of a friend as you sit and sip water.
I have all of these symtoms but have reverse dieted my way to 2100 calories. I’ve been at this level about three months but symptoms aren’t going away. I am 5’6″ 110
Do I need more calories? Or will it just take time as I continue at this level?
Try adding some more calories. You’re still technically underweight as your BMI is 17.75 (BMI of 18.5-25 is considered “healthy”). You could potentially stand to gain 5-10 pounds. That might help kick start your hormonal function and improve your symptoms.
Of course this is a complete guess, there may be other things going on that you need more one-on-one help with.
My boyfriend always is telling me I don’t eat enough. I’m 16, 5’2 & I’m 105 pounds. Latelty I iust can’t eat or drink, a couple of minutes ago I tried drinking water & I puked it up without even being able to swallow it all the way. I’m anemic, as well. These past 3 days, I haven’t ate at all. Every time I do, I just puke it up. I’m extremely cold right now, I can’t sleep, I can’t eat, and everything makes me sad & want to cry. If I’m not crying I am angry & I don’t understand. when I stand I become very light headed & I feel like all my weight is on my legs & it’s tiring. I’m extremely tired but I can’t sleep. I know this may sound as to much information to some, but I started my period yesterday as well, I am bleeding a lot more than I ever have. Being that I’m anemic I believe this is causing this all. I don’t know how to fix it though, I would appreciate some helpful comments please.
Call your doctor as soon as you can. It may be something serious and is better to outrule that first. To me it does not sound like a consequence of chronic undereating and even trying to add to your caloric intake can be challenging at the state you are now.
i don’t know if you very already solved this problem or not but I figured I’d give you some advice. I don’t each much maybe 1 a day if I remember to. In 19& weigh about 213. Weird right you’d think I weigh less but unfortunately not. I’ve always had extremely bad periods. Bleeding for weeks on end until I went to the er and found out I’m anemic. My blood levels were at a 4.6 and your not supposed to get a blood transfusion unless you’re about to hit a level 7 so you could only imagine how weak I was. I couldn’t even stand in the shower I would get dizzy and nauseous and my Dr was surprised I was even conscious. I stayed for a week and a half got three blood transfusions and got more sleep than I ever remember. He gave me iron pills and frolic acid and it worked wonders. Ibproferen can work also for menstrual flow& getting sleep. I had the worst moods swings ever and had trouble from being emotional at work because no matter how tired I was I couldn’t sleep. Although I still have trouble with under eating and I get killer migraines my period only last 5 days and barely any blood. So buy some iron & folic acid pills for the dizzyness & ibproferen for sleeping. I truly hope you’re feeling better now.
since I’ve come of holiday and moved to partners house what has been very hectic and stressful,with depression and meds too I’ve not seem to be eating that much but I’ve gained four pounds in about a month!!!!?I’m getting dishatend at this as I’m 48 and don’t want to be so low in mood that I’m going to get bigger,need a boost or a kick…..?
Your situation may be different than mine but when I lived with my ex I started to gain a lot of weight, I went from 125 to 175 in just a few months. I’m not sure what it was but I just assumed that it was just that I wasn’t happy and overly stressed bc as soon as I moved back home I started to lose all that weight fast and I lose more every day, my clothes don’t even fit anymore. If you are unhappy or stressed get out now bc it will only get worse. If there are just a few issues try to work them out and if that can’t be then just leave. Everyone deserves to be happy and no one needs to live with stress bc it just wears you down. Good luck, hope everything works out for you. 🙂
I’m definitely in the “not enough calories” boat right now, but having a hard time getting out of it! I have celiac disease and a dairy allergy, and there is a long list of foods that seem to bother me due to a leaky gut. Because if this, and the fact that I’m a working mom with 2 kids and don’t have a lot of time, I’ve been eating a lot of spring greens salads with a little lean meat on top because it’s easy. Sounds healthy, until it’s the bulk of your diet and you’re barely hitting 1,000 calories). Over the past several months my weight loss has stalled (I lost 80 lbs and then just stopped about 20 lbs from my ideal weight), I’m not sleeping well, and I’m not getting the returns I should be getting from the time I put in at the gym. i know I need more carbs but honestly I’m not sure what sources to add in that would pack the biggest punch nutritionally.
I wondered if you found any food options? I am 32 with celiac and a dairy allergy, as well as soy, egg, nuts, and beef. It’s hard making my calories when there’s so much I can’t eat and I have 3 kids so I tend to grab for the quick and easy!
Have you tried adding some good fats into your diet. Try olive oil dressing on your salad or eating avocado.
Hi! I recently discovered I was undereating for what I would assume was years due to medications (Celexa, Topamax). I’ve been off of Celexa for a year, but am still taking Topamax. Each time I started one of these medications I lost some weight. About 5 lbs with Celexa, 10 with Topamax the first time I took it. I was actually doing a blog post of my own and my sister made a comment like “That’s ALL you ate today?”. I’m not an active person, my fitbit says on average 4k steps a day most of which coming from working out which is about an hour 5-6x a week. I calculated the food I ate that day and it was just over 800 calories! I remember being completely stuffed that day. I’m a person that never counted calories either, I just ate via intuition so finding this out was terrifying and I had no idea how it happened. I kept track the next few days too and each time it was still around 800-900 calories. I was diagnosed with IBS in 7th grade (now 25) so my digestion is sluggish to begin with and I get constipation VERY often, but now I’m wondering if it’s partly due to the lack of food. I began slowly increasing calories as soon as i found out about a month ago, but I’m experiencing edema? First in my abdomen for a week or so after the initial increase and then it moves to my thighs. Is this normal? Also, I’m 5’3″, was 135lbs when I started (no clue what I am now…140-142? haha theres noticeable swelling in my legs where i typically gain weight), but my comfortable weight is around 10lbs lighter which is what I was about a year ago and since then the weight hasn’t been able to come off which was also a sign of me undereating now I see! I’ve also seen recommendations to eat 2000-2500 calories to help bring the body back to homeostasis, usually with ED patients, but according to most of the calculators I should be consuming around 1800 to maintain. What should I do, eat 1800 or between 2000-2500? sorry for the questions, I’m stressing about the bloating and constipation that’s currently happening and at what calorie intake my body will go back to normal (maybe even go down to 125 ish), and can’t find anything that really pertains to my situation with me being understanding of the bloating that’s happening, eating well below my limits but being an average weight, not being an ED patient, etc. I’ve only been doing yoga a few times a week instead of my usual workouts because with the ED stuff they said your body can’t repair itself if you’re still working out because you’re using the energy instead of putting it towards repairs. Is this true or would I still be able to do light exercise because I enjoy it. Sorry again for all the questions! gahh!
P.S. my sister’s a personal trainer and has done a bikini competition where she discovered she was also undereating for the amount of activity she was doing so her coach did something called reverse dieting which is basically just increasing calories EXTREMELY slowly over a few months. I think she went up to 2100 from 1400 and also experience minor swelling but I don’t remember it being as noticeable as mine. She did recommend I go up to 2100 calories though for a few months to level out while doing some lifting at the gym and then come down to 2000 for maintenance.