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8 Signs and Symptoms That You’re Not Eating Enough and How to Come up with a Good Calorie Intake Plan

by Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD

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Reviewed by Tracey Long, MPH, RDN

If you’re not eating enough, an inadequate calorie intake could be the root cause of your health problems. Find out how to recognize the signs of under-eating.

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Not eating enough has its own set of consequences, including trouble falling asleep or staying asleep. iStock.com/Tero Vesalainen

In our modern society with its seemingly endless supply of fast food and junk food, it seems obvious to most why we’re dealing with an obesity epidemic. Cheap, low-quality food surrounds us, and there’s not enough time in the world to exercise away all the excess calories that exist in our food supply.

However, those of us in the Paleo and ancestral health community seem to have a different problem altogether. It’s one that I’ve seen in dozens of clients.

This problem is chronic under-eating.

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Why Under-Eating Is so Common

Yes, I said under-eating, not overeating. While most people would find it hard to believe that many of the health problems people experience when going Paleo are from a lack of calories and appropriate macronutrients, I’ve seen it in my private practice countless times; clients who were experiencing mysterious, nagging symptoms that suddenly disappeared when we evaluated and corrected their daily food intake.

I’ve even seen clients who couldn’t lose weight that were suddenly able to do so after realizing they weren’t eating enough and increasing their food intake. Quite the opposite of the “calories-in-calories-out” mentality!

Why is under-eating so common? It can happen for a number of reasons:

  • A restricted diet
  • Above average activity levels
  • Stress
  • Fear of certain foods and food groups
  • Busyness
  • Chronic dieting
  • Pregnancy/breastfeeding

Could something as simple as under-eating be causing your health problems? Could inadequate food intake be the reason why your Paleo diet suddenly isn’t working for you anymore? Is your “rapid weight loss” diet plan the reason your jeans are getting tighter instead of looser?

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Signs and Symptoms of Under-eating

Below are the top eight signs and symptoms I see in my clients who are chronically under-eating. Read on to discover if you might simply need some more food to start feeling better today.

1. Your Weight Isn’t Budging

This is one of the most paradoxical symptoms of someone who is under-eating, and it often goes hand in hand with overtraining. You might be surprised to hear that I’ve rarely worked with a weight loss client who was blatantly overeating. In fact, many of my clients come to me on extremely low-calorie diets (around 1,000 to 1,200 calories per day) combined with six to seven days per week of intense exercise like CrossFit or long-distance running.

For good reason, they are extremely frustrated that their weight isn’t changing; for some of these clients, their weight has actually been increasing since they dropped their food intake and started working out more. Many of these clients are also eating a very low-carbohydrate diet with the goal of losing weight quickly.

We’ve been trained to believe that the body is a machine, and we can input and output our calories in a way that will cause weight loss. So it’s understandable why these clients would expect to see weight loss from a significant caloric deficit like that. But the fact is, they simply can’t lose the last 15 to 30 pounds no matter how little they eat. Why is this?

While a short-term, moderate caloric deficit can lead to sustainable weight loss (think 300 to 500 calories per day), much larger deficits induce changes in your body’s metabolism in order to keep your body in a homeostatic balance. Your body does not like major, drastic changes, and it will make modifications to your thyroid, adrenal, and sex hormones in order to reduce your overall caloric output.

These changes include reducing active thyroid hormone, shutting down sex hormone production, and raising stress hormones like cortisol. (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) Chronically elevated cortisol leads to both leptin and insulin resistance, a disastrous hormonal state that can keep body weight high. (6, 7)

These hormonal changes can lead to stalled weight loss and body fat retention, along with many other negative health effects that go beyond weight loss resistance. So, if you’ve been eating much less and exercising much more in a futile attempt to lose weight, consider whether this strategy has been working for you.

2. You Can’t Get Pregnant

Scientists have known for a long time that low-calorie dieting and inadequate body fat can lead to infertility and amenorrhea in women. (8) One of the most commonly seen manifestations of this problem is known as hypothalamic amenorrhea, which is hallmarked by menstrual irregularity or amenorrhea and low energy availability, with or without an eating disorder. (9)

Menstrual irregularity doesn’t necessarily mean a missed period; it can simply mean a woman is having an anovulatory cycle, meaning there is no egg released during the ovulatory period.

Hypothalamic amenorrhea caused by chronic caloric deprivation is also associated with physiological changes like hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal (HPA) axis overactivity (also known as adrenal fatigue) and disturbances in the hypothalamic–pituitary–thyroid axis (also known as euthyroid sick syndrome).

I’ve worked with many clients who recovered their period after returning to a normal caloric intake. I’ve even had one client who was finally able to get pregnant when she switched to a higher-calorie ancestral diet, after her doctors told her she’d always be infertile.

So, if you’ve been struggling to get pregnant, and you have a history of dieting and exercising for weight loss, it’s possible that your low-calorie diet is preventing you from getting pregnant.

3. Your Blood Sugar Is on a Roller Coaster

While many people blame excessive carbohydrate consumption for wild blood sugar swings, you might be surprised to learn that inadequate calorie consumption can cause just as many issues with blood sugar control. The most common issue that comes from chronic under-eating is hypoglycemia, or low blood sugar.

Hypoglycemia is defined as blood sugar below 70 mg/dL, though some people experience symptoms at higher blood sugar levels. Common symptoms of hypoglycemia include:

  • Hunger
  • Shakiness
  • Anxiety
  • Dizziness
  • Sweating
  • Weakness
  • Confusion
  • Changes in mood

Severe under-eating can easily cause hypoglycemia, especially when combined with exercise. (10) And because many people feel better eating sugary foods when they’re hypoglycemic, this can lead to the common cycle of high and low blood sugar swings that cause chronic dieters to overeat or binge on junk foods.

This is yet another reason that the most sustainable diet for weight loss provides adequate calories to keep your hormones and blood sugar even-keeled.

4. Your Mood Is Totally Unpredictable

Have you ever heard the term “hangry” before?

It refers to the state of anger and irritability resulting from being hungry. And even though it’s a made-up term, there’s actually scientific evidence for the existence of this volatile emotional state caused by inadequate food intake. (11)

As I mentioned earlier, lack of eating enough food can lead to hypoglycemia, or low blood sugar. Since the brain requires blood sugar to function optimally, when it starts to drop, one of the first cognitive processes that suffers is self-control. (12) Your ability to exert self-control allows you to:

  • Focus your attention
  • Regulate your emotions
  • Cope with stress
  • Resist impulsivity
  • Refrain from aggressive behavior

So, if you’re always on a short fuse, or your mood is constantly swinging between cheerful and irritable or anxious, make sure that you’re not severely under-eating before making any other significant changes to your diet and supplement or medication routine.

5. You Can’t Fall Asleep (Or Stay Asleep)

Insomnia and other sleep disturbances are one of the top health complaints my clients come to me for help fixing. This is especially common in peri-menopausal women who seem to be especially prone to poor sleep despite generally good sleep hygiene and a health-conscious lifestyle.

Oddly enough, one of the first symptoms that changes when I get my clients eating a more calorically appropriate diet is a significant improvement in sleep duration and quality. Even if they weren’t necessarily waking up hungry, many of my clients find that an increased calorie intake (especially from carbohydrates) can lead them to fall asleep faster and stop waking up at night.

One reason for this likely comes from the improved blood sugar control that arises from an appropriate calorie and carbohydrate intake. As your blood sugar drops overnight, your liver must release its stored glucose (in the form of glycogen) to keep your blood sugar steady.

If you’re constantly under-eating, especially if you’re overexercising on top of that, your liver won’t have the glycogen stores it needs to keep your blood sugar stable. In this case, your body must release stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline to promote gluconeogenesis, the process of creating new glucose. If these stress hormones elevate high enough, they can actually wake you up in the middle of the night.

Making sure you’re eating enough overall and potentially including a carb- and fat-dense bedtime snack one to two hours before going to sleep can help keep your blood sugar stable overnight, leading to more restful, uninterrupted sleep.

Some of my favorite examples of balanced snacks are:

  • An apple and 1 to 2 TB of nut butter
  • Half a sweet potato and 1 TB of butter or ghee
  • Berries and coconut milk
  • A banana and 1 ounce of macadamia nuts
  • Full-fat yogurt with a drizzle of honey

6. You’re Chronically Constipated

There are a few reasons why chronic under-eating can cause constipation. The most obvious is that feces is made up of waste matter from the digestion of food, so if you’re not getting enough food, your stool won’t have much bulk to it.

The less obvious but more likely reason that under-eating can lead to constipation is due to the effects of undernutrition on thyroid hormone. As I discussed previously, under-eating causes a downregulation of T3, the active thyroid hormone. This can lead to a condition called euthyroid sick syndrome, where T3 is low, reverse T3 is high, and thyroid-stimulating hormone and T4 are often normal. In this condition, your body develops hypothyroidism symptoms without necessarily showing any change in the typical thyroid function markers that most doctors check.

Constipation is a very common symptom of hypothyroidism. Active thyroid hormone helps stimulate peristalsis in the gut, keeping digestion humming along smoothly. When T3 drops, gut motility slows, and this can lead to chronic constipation. So, if you’re having a bowel movement only every couple of days, check your caloric intake and make sure you’re not under-eating.

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7. You’re Always Cold

Caloric restriction is known to cause a drop in body temperature. (13) While some calorie-restriction proponents suggest that this is a sign of expected longevity, my clients’ (and my own) experience dictates that this is not a comfortable way to live on a daily basis. Whether or not this extends our life span, who wants to constantly feel frigid on a daily basis? Not me, and I’d bet not you either.

A lowered body temperature can be due to a decrease in thermogenesis, since your body needs a certain amount of ingested calories to create heat, as well as due to the hormonal changes that come from caloric restriction, such as thyroid hormone reduction and HPA axis disruption. Low insulin can also lead to low body temperature, so some people on a very-low-carbohydrate diet will experience this symptom, as well. (14)

I may sound like a broken record at this point, but if you’re always cold, even in the summertime, it’s highly likely that you’re not getting enough to eat.

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Not eating enough can sometimes lead to hair loss. iStock/Doucefleur

8. You’re Losing Hair by the Handful

Hair loss is one of the first signs of nutritional deficiency, whether that be calories, protein, or both. It is exacerbated by the hormonal changes that develop from chronic under-eating, including a drop in sex hormones like progesterone, testosterone, and estrogen. (15, 16) Hair loss is another common symptom of hypothyroidism, which, as you’ve learned, can develop from long-term calorie restriction.

If your hair is falling out at a scarily fast rate, you need to take a hard look at your diet. Consuming a calorically appropriate, protein-rich, nutrient-dense whole foods diet should be the first step for anyone who wants to stop hair loss in its tracks.

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How Do You Stop Under-Eating and Improve Calorie Intake?

Determining exactly how many calories you need to eat on a daily basis for optimal health and weight control is tricky. Many factors come into play, including your physical activity, stress levels, sleep adequacy, history of chronic disease, and more. It’s impossible to know exactly how many calories your body needs on a daily basis, but there are some ways to estimate what you should be eating.

A quick and easy way to roughly estimate your “basement” calorie target—the lowest amount of calories you should ever eat—is to multiply your ideal body weight by 10. A woman who is 5’5” has an “ideal” body weight of around 125 pounds, so she should not eat less than 1,250 calories per day. Use this calculator to determine your “ideal” body weight. (Note: this calculator does not take into account frame size or muscle mass—that’s why I put “ideal” in quotes.)

It’s important to note that this quick estimate is a “sedentary” formula, meaning it does not take into account any physical activity beyond sitting and standing. If you’re exercising regularly, you’ll need to add at least 200 to 400 calories on top of that number. That same 5’5” woman might burn around 300 calories or more from a 30-minute run, taking her minimum calorie needs up to 1,550 calories per day, assuming she doesn’t do any other exercise that day.

Different workouts burn different amounts of calories. A CrossFit WOD can burn 12 to 20 calories per minute on average, so a WOD that takes 20 minutes could burn 240 to 400 calories. (17) If you’re aiming for a high step count, 10,000 steps burns around 300 to 500 calories, give or take, depending on body size and gender.

These are just examples of common exercise types in the Paleo community, and the point is to be aware that if you’re a highly active individual, your calorie needs will go up by several hundred calories per day above the “10 x ideal weight” formula.

Another common factor that will raise your caloric needs is if you are a breastfeeding woman. Many of my female clients are shocked to hear that breastfeeding can raise your caloric expenditure by 500 calories per day or more. (18) So breastfeeding women need at least 300 calories per day above and beyond other women who are not breastfeeding, and that’s only if they have extra weight to lose postpartum.

So what does this calorie target exercise look like in practice? Using myself as an example, my “ideal” body weight is about 140 pounds, and I usually burn around 400 to 500 calories via exercise per day, so I try not to eat below 1,800 calories, especially on heavier training days, where I may eat more like 2,000 to 2,200 total. Your mileage may vary, but it’s a pretty easy place to start from, and you can tweak up and down as necessary as your health and weight fluctuates.

Alternatively, you can use this calculator to estimate your daily calorie needs based on your age, gender, height, weight, and activity level.

As you can see, determining caloric needs can get somewhat complicated, especially with the goal of weight loss thrown into the mix. When I work with clients, my goal is to get them on the least restrictive, most calorically appropriate diet possible. It’s amazing to see the health improvements that come from a simple increase in caloric intake when someone has been chronically under-eating.

If you need help figuring out the right calorie intake for you, let me help you to determine the best diet to keep you feeling and looking your best, without unnecessary restriction or starvation dieting.

Remember, eating too little is just as unhealthy as eating too much. Find the right amount of food intake that works best for you, and don’t be afraid to experiment with eating more if your health isn’t where you want it to be!

Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD
Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD

Laura Schoenfeld, MPH, RD, is a licensed registered dietitian and women’s health expert trained in Functional Medical nutrition therapy. She assisted in the creation of educational materials for both the ADAPT practitioner and health coach training programs.

Her passion is empowering women to nourish their bodies, develop true strength, and ultimately use their improved health to pursue their purpose. Laura guides her clients in identifying and implementing diet and lifestyle changes that allow them to live a healthy, fit, symptom-free life without being consumed by thoughts of food and exercise. She draws from a variety of sources to form her philosophy on nutrition, including ancestral diets, principles of biochemistry, current research, and clinical experience. Her areas of expertise include women’s hormones and fertility, gut health, autoimmune disease, athletic performance, stress management, skin health, and weight loss. Recognizing that health goes far beyond just diet and exercise, Laura teaches her clients how to focus on and implement life-changing mental and spiritual health habits as well, including changing their thoughts and beliefs to ones that drive health-supporting decision-making around food, fitness, and life in general.

Her greatest mission is to help health-conscious women realize that, while their health is priceless, they are so much more than a body. When she’s not educating and serving her coaching clients and community, Laura loves traveling with her husband, Sundays with her church family, hikes with her dog, beach trips, live music, and strength training.

Professional website: lauraschoenfeldrd.com

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  1. I think this explains what i’ve been feeling just in the last few days. i tried moderately- about 7 hours per week, hard long workouts M,W, F cardio, weights and swimming.

    the other night i ate an early dinner and around 11 or so i felt way way off. hard to describe it, it was like everything in my body had to work harder just to operate.

    this morning had that same feeling, just whole body felt wrong. well i ate an earlier lunch (had only 1 small meal between about 7pm last night and 3pm today) and felt a TON better.

    i didn’t think i was eating too little but i have a feeling that must be it. been seeing fantastic progress at the gym (i also quit sugar 5 weeks ago). but i don’t want to sabotage it. gotta eat more i’m thinking.

  2. I’m new here, and looking for help. I’m a big girl, 48 y/o, 5’8″, ~340 lbs, recovering from angioplasty, etc. All has been fine for the past 9 months, but not I’ve totally lost my appetite and have zero energy. I have lost all desire to eat, and have cut back significantly on eating.
    As an example, since last Friday (exactly 1 week) I’ve eaten approx 1/2 a McDonalds side salad and half a tuna sandwich. (approx 500 calories a week) The only thing I drink is water.

    Does anyone know what I can do to overcome this lack of appetite? Please help!

  3. Struggling to hit my macros and calories 34 fem I train mma 5 days a week I have more than 50 lbs to lose I have lost 40 since I started over an 8 month time span without tracking calories and macros just by eating clean. Now that I am watching them I see that I often don’t meet even the 1200 calorie mark. My question is if I’m not feeling weak or hungry or noticing any issues should I be concerned I am still seeing progress maybe not always on the scale but definitely with the tape and with strength and agility … I do intend to work on increasing my calorie count but I don’t want to stress over having to hit a certain number every day if I’m full I want to stop eating

      • No answer but since I posed the question I have added strictly strength training 2 days a week and shifted macros to 50%protein 20%carb and 30%fats I still miss on days where I’m only training mma as I have noticed it is intense but it’s more methodical but on days I strength train I have no problems hitting my macros and will increase my carbs for those days I need the fuel to get the intensity of the workout done. With the change up I have dropped 15 lbs since my previous post. Hope this might help you

      • Hi I recently like five days ago stopped eating meat and sugar due to my health it was my choice I lost 15 pounds in 16 days I eat cottage cheese beans and baby food and peanut butter and jelly whole wheat sandwiches and drink lots of water my doctor told me my Ac1 was high it’s supposed to be 6.6 but it’s 7.5 ? I was also told I h high blood pressure. Ugh so I did what I thought was right by cutting carbs

        • Your A1C result takes about 2-3 months to change. So changing your diet will not effect your A1C quickly. Your daily blood sugars will change immediately however based on diet changes.

          6.6 and 7.5 are both high A1C’s. I would aim to get it at or below 6.0 gradually so your body can adjust.

          Crazy dieting is not good. Stick to a sensible plan and if you’re taking any sort of diabetes medications oral or injected, try to keep your meal timing and food amounts more or less the same each day.

          Managing blood sugars and diabetes is all about consistency. Once you put a general plan together all your numbers including A1C and daily blood sugars will fall into better and more predictable levels.

  4. Hi. I really enjoyed reading your article. I have now adjusted my diet up on the calorie count to match the guidelines. However as I increase the calories my weight increased. How does one go about making sure to eat the right amount of calories without gaining weight. I was eating around 1100 calories and now up to 1400 calories and more if I do a workout.

  5. I am 23 years old and I weigh 180. I really want to lose weight but I have fibromyalgia and get tired easily so I don’t cook as often as I should. Any suggestions?

    • Hi Jasmine,
      I know it’s very hard having fibromyalgia,as my mother has it.
      I would suggest when you are feeling yourself cooking a large amount of healthy meals and freezing in Tupperware so Evan when you havnt got much energy so know you have healthy,nutritious meals in the freezer which just need to be thawed and re-heated.

      • I used to be so tired and hungry, I could hardly cook, I have Fibro too. As you gradually cut down on sugar and grains, and even fruit, and add more fats and perhaps more protein, you may not be as tired and hungry. You can wait until some thing is cooked, and lose weight as you do this. Some thing that is simple, is to put a piece of meat, in a baking dish in the oven, cook until nearly done, and throw some broccoli, or some such into the dish and then cook until done. Adding salt and spices, and maybe more fat to cook it. I cook chicken and other meat ahead as well, as most are good cold. I found some marinated jars of asparagus at Sam’s Club that make a quick meal.

    • I would suggest when you get the energy to make food that you make easy to make meals ahead of time. Example: Put frozen fruit or protein powder, spinach, ect. in a plastic cup and out in freezer so you can throw it in a blender, add juice or milk and you have a snack! Or, you can make large dishes such as lasagna, caseroles, ect. and put them into plastic bags with individual serving sizes and freeze them, so you just have to put them in the microwave for a couple minutes and you have a meal! Hope it helps

  6. This article is super helpful and I can relate to a lot of the symptoms listed. I’m considering this being a cause of my recent weight gain. I initially got into weight training last spring and didn’t track what I ate, but ate whenever I felt hungry and made sure it was all healthy, good food, with the exception of my allowed one cheat meal a week. I worked out 5 times a day doing an hour of weight training with 20 minutes of cardio at the end. I lost 10 lbs within 2-3 months, and that was without tracking any of my calories or macronutrients. I felt and looked the best I ever had. I’m a 5’4″ 23 year old female and was down to my “goal” weight of 122 and was beyond happy with my body at that point. I found out what cutting and macros were and decided to give that a try, where I would be eating around 1500 calories/day. A few months after this I realized I was gaining weight and it wasn’t muscle weight. I noticed my clothes were getting tighter and now 8 months later I am 10 lbs heavier than when I first started cutting.

    Needless to say I think your article makes sense in my situation and I’m hopeful that this is the solution I’ve been looking for. I’ve been getting frustrated with the fact that I’ve been eating clean and working out, just to keep gaining weight and fat. I’m going to try increasing my calories to 1750-1800 to see if I can take off some of the weight I’ve gained while “cutting.”

    Thanks for your helpful article!

  7. Hi, I’m 34 and 5’5. Right now I’m about 121 lbs. I’m Caucasian and live in S. Korea. I’m guessing I shouldn’t go below 114 lbs? I still have fat on my inner thighs, hips, butt and stomach. I’ve found Dance Dance Revolution as my exercise and burn about 400 calories in an hour..estimate. I exercise about 1 hour per day and dance about once a week. (blues, salsa, etc.) What exercises and food do I eat to lose these hard to reach fat areas? My diet at the moment includes a lot of rice and meat and sometimes Korean vegetables.

    • I also forgot to include that my calorie intake is about 1200 per day. Sometimes I eat more if I’m hungry but will exercise to “bring it back down to 1200” for the day. I’ve lost about 2 pounds in the last 2 weeks. I’m guessing I need more vegetables though. What do you think?

      • Don’t mean to be short but, read the article you are commenting on. You are eating too little. I am about the same as you, 5’5, living in Asia. 1200 calories PLUS exercise means you are eating far too little. You are in ‘starvation mode’ and your body will hold on to any and all energy (i.e. fat) that you have / give to it. It says it all in the article. Increase your calorie intake and see what happens.

  8. My husband has lost over 100lbs in 9 months..he did really good got off all his blood pressure meds and cpac machine. But i am concerned he is not getting enough nutrition. He now feels tired all the time noooo energy and moody and depressed…any suggestions

    • Get his thyroid and adrenal results checked. Maybe he burned himself out? I’m not sure, but to me it sounds like an hypothyroid /adrenal fatigue case

    • Did he have a sleep study before he stopped using the CPAP to make sure that he no longer needed it?

    • Is he still trying to lose more weight? If so, seek a specialist and a Nutritionist, if you guys hadn’t done so, already. Weightloss is like trying to kick a drug habit. It took me through all sorts of emotional rollercoasters. I went through withdrawals and kept having to bounce back. Its a very miserable experience, I mean, was a Bitch!

      If you all are spiritual, use that! The process is just that, a process. After my weight loss, I was soooooo relieved! Because I was no longer eating minimum calories to lose weight. I was eating to maintain; which is a much more peaceful journey (and of course, MORE CALORIES).

      Best of luck to you both!

    • With losing that much weight that quickly, he is definitely lacking nutrients that his body needs to sustain him. He could be deficient in iron, I had similar symptoms a year ago, from eating too little and losing weight too quickly and once I got on medications for anemia, my energy and strength returned quite quickly. Another issue to be aware of is potassium deficiency. Any micronutrient he could be lacking could cause these symptoms.

  9. Hi,
    My name is Katie. I am a 21 year old female who has been struggling to gain a few pounds for over 2 years. In high school I developed an eating disorder where I drastically reduced the amount of calories I was eating to lose some weight when I entered the modeling world. When I realized I was too thin, I stopped modeling and started working out more and eating more. However, I’m still stuck at around the same weight as I was two years ago. I am 5’11.5 and 115lbs. I have trouble gaining weight because I am extremely health conscious and don’t fill my body with junk. I also get full really easily. I’m stuck on what to do because while I really want to gain 10 lbs, part of me is scared.

    • If you want to gain weight but get full easily, you should try eating more calorically-dense foods. Loading up on healthy foods–e.g. veggies–that are low in calories but high in fiber may make it difficult to get enough calories. Consider introducing more healthy fats into your diet. Avocado, olive oil, fish, nut butters, etc. should help you increase your calorie intake without eating any junk.

    • Yes, I have had similar issues trying to gain weight back during sports seasons and high- intensity training while suffering with eating disorders. You need to eat enough fruits and vegatbales to get enough nutrition, without filling your stomach up. Getting calorie dense foods, and eating high calorie meals and snacks is very important. Also,remember when you are eating and get full really fast that it will be a gradual change on expanding your stomach to eat a normal amount again, after suffering from your eating disorder. have the mindset that you are eating purely based off your calorie and body needs rather than what your stomach may tell you. Best of luck!

  10. Hello,

    I’m 30 and trying desperately to lose weight. I am a single mom of three small children, work full time, and just graduated from college. My busy lifestyle left me eating fast and convenient foods that are far from healthy. Now that things have calmed down a bit I want to focus on my health. I’m 270 lbs and 5 ft. Over the last few weeks I made the switch to mostly green veggies and protein. I am working out when I can but I am very active in my new career and don’t always have the energy at the end of the day. Despite the change in my diet the number on the scale has not changed. This is so confusing to me because I feel so much better. I think I may not be eating enough but I eat when I’m hungry and I don’t want to force myself to eat more. Any suggestions?

    • I was at 270 (5’5″) at the start of the year. I’m now 40 lbs lighter. Lost most of it (30 in 2 months) via the Ideal Protein Diet.

      I’m now having to make myself eat more calories as so I don’t stall.

      The nutritionist really helps pinpoint what I’m doing wrong. My two biggest stall foods are diet soda and dairy.

  11. Your comment is awaiting moderation.

    Hello, if you eat in a calorie deficit all week, and you go over one day a week, will you gain weight ? For example, eating 1200 for 6/7 of the week then 1/7 of the day’s eating 3000-4000 calories (2000 + 1000 or 2000)

    Exercise 6/7 x a week

    Age 20

    Female

    Weigh around 116

    Height 5’7

    • That should be ok, as a guy that is what I did to lose 25 stubborn lbs, intermittent fasting high protein low carb low fat 6 days, and then a carb feed, good high carbs, lean protein, moderate fat and would eat breakfast lunch dinner on that day. I also worked out 3 to 5 days a week, I am 5′ 8″ and even though i got to 170, I looked thinner but not muscle, so I have lost 100 lbs total since 2009, i still have stubborn fat I want to lose, but right now I am trying to gain more muscle, while in that huge calorie deficit I was not maintaining muscle, not a good thing.

      116 at 5′ 7″ it does not sound like you need to lose weight, looking at charts you actually are underweight. It shows 122 would be the small side for 5′ 7″ Stop restricting your calories.

  12. Hello, if you eat in a calorie deficit all week, and you go over one day a week, will you gain weight ? For example, eating 1200 for 6/7 of the week then 1/7 of the day’s eating 3000-4000 calories (2000 + 1000 or 2000)

    Age 20

    Weigh around 116

    Height 5’7

  13. I am a 35-year-old female. Used to weigh about 113 to 118 – ate pretty clean and worked out by lifting and doing cardio. Did that for years. The last five years or so it has been more difficult to get to the gym but I still go and try and stay active. My son is older now so I can no longer take him to the daycare. I’m a single mom so I hate leaving him alone (also autistic). Now that he is 14 I can get in there about 3 good days a week and supplement cardio at home. I hate working out at home. I am terrible about it and do better if I go to the gym. But I will walk/run outside if it is nice and do weights at the gym. Anyway – I try and stick to a vegan gluten free diet due to food intolerances and the ethical environmental issues around eating animal products. (2,000 gallons of water per pound of beef – we cannot sustain eating meat and it’s animal torture and terrible for the earth) my weight went up to about 129-130 about three years ago. I was working out though. I wasn’t super comfortable with it even though it didn’t look terrible on me. I am 5’4 btw..and was pretty toned at the time. I have hypothyroidism too diagnosed at 27 but had for awhile before that. On synthroid now and feel much better though have never gotten back to normal. Anyway – when my grandfather died in 2012 I had been working out almost daily and eating VERY clean – the weight started falling off. I assumed it was from the gym but then I didn’t go to the gym for about two months due to his cancer and then death – plus we went on a vacation and then it was Christmas and New Years and my son was home on vacation. I dropped to 118 in about two or three weeks. The beginning of December we went on a cruise and I weighed 118. By the beginning of January I was down to about 115 – and then by spring down to 108. This was with no diet change really and working out semi-regularly. I was maybe eating cleaner? But not counting calories or anything. Before my grandpa died I had been trying to lose the extra weight but couldn’t. Nothing helped. I figured it was my thyroid. If my tsh is low or high I will gain. Optima for me is about 1.0. Anyway…I have remained 108 ever since. With a little fluctuation during my period but I always go back to 108.

    Enter the last couple of months. My weight started creeping up – to 111. Doesn’t sound like a lot but I felt uncomfortable. Stomach very very sensitive. Then I started losing again. No appetite at all. Stools are always loose. Occasional full blown diarrhea – occasional full blown constipation – but mostly really loose stools. It’s like I’m not absorbing anything and it goes right through me.

    Again no appetite and I am not even working out much due to feeling weak.

    This am I weighed 100.4. I’m clearly losing muscle. I do have a tendency to lose weight when stressed – like literally five pounds overnight – I can feel the weight coming off – but I usually gain it right back when stress is over – and always 108.

    I have to force myself to eat. I’ve been eating oatmeal the last five days. It’s very filling though and all I can manage.

    Other symptoms the last six months – it’s like I have No immune system….getting warts on my fingers – herpes (face) that I have had since a kid but now get all the time – I now take Valtrez daily. Breaking out and skin isn’t healing. I had a HORRID yeast infection for about four months. I have had lower back pain – like almost in the sacral area – feels kind of like a nerve pain – since October. I had a pap/colposcopy that revealed high grade changes and they want to do a LEEP but I refuse…also having allergies and have to take an allergy pill almost daily. Eyes itch. Have never had that before. Really don’t want to go back to the doctor. I cannot eat gluten corn soy and won’t eat animal products. Even peanuts/nuts – make me bloated and cramp. Also / I feel bloated and crampy all the time anyway. I eat Advil like crazy. I’m not the nervous paranoid type and really hate going to the doctor. I only did the pap because I’ve been getting frequent periods…and they last for weeks. And they are heavier and I have quite a bit of brown discharge.

    Wtf is wrong with me?? I don’t want to lose more weight. 105 I liked – I think I look best at that weight..I am curvy so I don’t look like I am too thin. Big boobs and hips. Small waist. Smaller frame.

    But I am afraid the scale will say 99 tomorrow!! I’ve also been urinating tons…feel super dehydrated all the time. And tired….have not been very active at all.

    • Definitely get LEEP done. I’ve had high grade and it can/will turn to cervical cancer if not treated.

    • Get pelvic ultrasound or imaging of area your in pain.. Don’t give up. Those symptoms back pain , can also be related to endometriosis, fibroids, etc. I just had hysterectomy and feel great. Don’t give up. And don’t be afraid.

    • Your story sound familiar . I am pre diabetic and may have irritable bowl syndrome and gluten sensitivity. My wt loss has to be due to diarrhea a lot of the time. Doctor does not know for sure.
      Hope you can find out what is causing the weight loss.

  14. Hi I would not like to reveal my name for certain reasons first of all. So I’m 14 going on 15 in a few months and I haven’t been eating i usually don’t fall a sleep until 9pm(school night) and/or 2am(holiday or exam time) and I usually wake up for school at 5am or I wake up on a holiday at 12am and during that time I will have 1 piece of bread or a quarter serving of my dinner. I drink water occasionally and I tend to stay away from junk food. I have lost a lot of weight I’m currently 30kg’s and still haven’t hit puberty I don’t know what’s wrong with me 🙁

    • Why aren’t you eating? It sounds like you’re eating dangerously low amounts of food. While some women don’t hit puberty until later, you definitely won’t if you under eat. You need to have a certain amount of body fat or your body thinks there I not enough food around to support a baby and so keeps you from getting pregnant by stopping or delaying your monthly. Focus on eating higher quality foods, meats, eggs and vegetables, cooked in olive or coconut oil. If you don’t want to eat, eat anyway, regularly, gradually increasing until you can eat a standard meal comfortably. If there is something physically ailing you when you eat, like nausea or a very full stomach, go see a doctor to see if you have some sort of digestive or obstruction issue.

  15. Hi!
    I’m a girl, 17 years old
    My weight around 47 then my height is 163cm. I don’t know why, I am eating less calories per day, i eat around 800-1000 calories and i do exercise 3 times a week, that includes muaythai, weight lifting, and zumba. I feel guilty when I eat more than I count. However, it’s been 3 month that My period has not coming yet, and My mood change unstably. It’s kind weird , when I include rice in the menu, my fat is not increasing but then when i’m not my fat is increasing. What should I do ? ;(

    • Im not a professional but based on what it says in this article I think you should eat more if you lose weight when you do!

      I used to be heavier but I lost weight when I started eating more again.

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    • Hi im muji. Im 16 and haven’t eaten a single thing in 2 days. Only drinking around 2 and a half cups of water. It seems to me that i don’t want to eat and i dont understand why because usually i over eat alot. For example i can consume 3 pizzas for dinner. So i am getting really confused.

    • Hi, I’m 15 and im 5’3. For about a year or so I stayed around 105-107 pounds. The most I’ve weighed is 109. In January/February, I had anxiety attacks and lost my appetite, along with 10 pounds. I started my period last week and the anxiety came back, but the weigh dropped again. I’m hungry all the time but when I eat, I feel like I’m going to throw up. When I don’t eat, its just so empty feeling and it burns all the way up to my chest. Is there anything I can do to get my eating habits back? I used to eat a lot everyday and I was okay and I had no anxiety. I think the reason its back is because I’m not eating near enough. The past two days I’ve had one meal for each. So please, if you have any suggestions or know what I can do, please tell me. I don’t want to be like this any longer.

      • Hey Emily,
        I’m no expert but I think you may need to see someone about your anxiety. It sounds like that’s the problem which is causing you not to eat.
        I would have a serious chat with your parents/guardian or even someone else you trust and get in to see a psychologist. Depending on where you live you could possibly find a free psychologist.
        I have similar symptoms when I have anxiety and it’s really difficult. Not eating can damage your body and you don’t want that!
        Look after yourself x

      • this problem runs in my family, there is nothing wrong with you! your anxiety is causing your loss of appetite. my mom experienced severe anxiety/panic disorder starting around the same time of my current age, and it got really bad to the point of having to drop out of college. (she was significantly underweight and describes having no appetite also) I have anxiety/panic disorder also, and when I started to experience the same thing and my doctor put me on medicine, specifically zoloft. it has helped so much and it is a life changer for many people, talk to your doctor about beginning meds because your anxiety is causing your loss of appetite 🙂

      • Hi Emily,
        I had the same issues with anxiety and not feeling well after eating for about a year. I went an saw a Psychiatrist and was told it was caused by PTS. I was told to take gaviscon after each meal. It worked pretty well (tasted terrible) But I also found that taking some calm breaths and not concentrating on what my stomach was doing seemed to help most of the time. Don’t be afraid to seek medical advice and family support.
        I am fine these days, sometime it if I get stressed it happens, but I try to keep it together.
        I hope you are well these days.
        Kim.

  17. Hi. I’m 15 and 5’2″ For a few months now, I’ve been dieting and exercising at least 5-6 days a week. So far I’ve lost about 20 pounds and I now weigh 120. Although losing the weight feels great, I am kind of worried. The past few months my period was getting shorter and then last month it just completely stopped. I have not been able to really sleep a whole night without waking up multiple times. My mood also changes so much! I’m a lot more depressed and can’t really find a reason to smile. What do I do? I usually eat around 600-800 calories a day. I tried increasing my food intake for about a week but I noticed I gained weight so I went to eating that amount of calories. Whenever I eat more more food, I feel like crap. How can I continue to be healthy and not gain weight?

    • oh my If you were my kiddo I would make sure you were eating more. Thats not enough your body is still growing and needs great nutrition. and The symptoms show your not eating enough. Eat every 3-4 hours check out trim healthy mama

    • Hi Brooke – Google Alisa Viti. She’s the author of the book, “Woman Code”. She has rally good info on menstral cycles, and women’s issues.

  18. Hy there.
    I noticed that the past month I’m not eating enough. I am 18 and I weigh 48 Kg which is lower than its supposed to be. I lost weight a lot of it and even though sometimes I’m hungry I seem to have lost my appetite. I dont get tired or show any signs of illness though my sleeping is also regressing. But I am going through a lot of stress because of high school final throughout the month. Is this normal or should I ask a professional? ? And thank you 🙂

  19. Hi,

    I’ve been recovering from an eating disorder for the past couple of months; restrictive eating and over exercising, becoming underweight but only by a couple of pounds. But now I’m eating more and exercising less – even though I know I should be stopping exercise completely – I find that I have this insatiable hunger. Is this normal? Should I answer my hunger? I just don’t feel like I was really sick enough. I’m finding it scary, I’ve gained a few pounds already but I really don’t want to gain anymore. Any advice would be great.

    • Hi Rosie,

      I’m 2 years into recovery from Anorexia Nervosa and have managed to maintain my weight for some time now. Do you have a treatment team that you work with? If not, I do think that’s it’s vital that you start working with a Doctor, Psychologist, and Dietitian.

      The insatiable hunger that you’re referring to is perfectly normal. Your body is desperate to take in more nutrients in order to protect vital organs, return hormones to normal levels, and a variety of other things. I am very familiar with the feeling of not being “sick enough”. Every person I went through treatment with felt exactly the same way.

      Honey I’d be lying if I said this was going to be easy… but recovery – including weight restoration – is so very worth it. It might feel like it is the most unnatural thing in the world for a while… but having a life where you’re able to function, sleep, work, study, and be happy is better than being underweight.

      Imagine not being cold all the time, being able to think about something other than food, being able to concentrate better than a goldfish, being able to go out with friends and family without having to pre-plan every bite of food and just being able to enjoy it…

      It’s worth it, I promise.

  20. I noticed that when I go too long without eating I feel sick and shaky. And I get headaches.
    I’ve been trying to lose weight. I went from 231 to 224, but I’m stuck there. I do tons of walking. I reduced my calories to about 900 per day.

    It sucks when you try to eat more but you have no appetite.

    • HI Lea, Letting your blood sugar drop too low can be what causes you to feelsick and shaky. Dehydration could also play a part.

      However I would suggest you are eating far to little as well.

      Ive left a link to our website where you can download a free ebook that might help you.

      Also feel free to contact us through the website and we can give you as much advise as possible.

      Hope to her from you.