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Get Your Period Back: 5 Tips for Recovering from Post Birth Control Syndrome

by Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD

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Reviewed by Phyllis J Gee, MD, FACOG

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One of the downsides of using “the Pill” is that many times it’s hard to get back to a normal menstrual cycle once you stop taking it. Some of my young female clients in their 20s and 30s who were taking birth control for a long time and then stopped haven’t had their periods for months, or sometimes even years!

It can be frustrating, especially for women who have stopped taking birth control because they want to become pregnant. And my clients realize that having amenorrhea isn’t a good sign for their overall health regardless of their childbearing plans, so they’ve come to me to help them make the diet, supplement, exercise, and lifestyle changes they need to in order to get their hormones back on track.

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Since this is a common experience for women my age, I wanted to share my best suggestions for recovering from post birth control syndrome using diet and lifestyle, in order to help those who have been frustrated by the symptoms associated with the condition. The following are tips you can follow without needing a doctor’s visit or a prescription. Read on to learn how to get your period back!

1. Optimize Your Nutrition Status

As a dietitian/nutritionist, nutrition is always the number one focus in any of my health improvement plans. My clients who’ve aren’t having regular periods tend to be some of the fastest responders to a tailored nutrition and supplement program, primarily because the loss of menstruation is often be a sign of underlying nutrient deficiencies. Even if you’re eating a whole foods, Paleo diet, there are many nutrients that can be inadequate if you’re not making a concerted effort to include specific foods and/or supplements.

There has been evidence accumulating over the years that certain nutrients may become depleted while a woman is on an oral contraceptive. While there are likely dozens of nutrients that are important in regaining your fertility and monthly cycle, there are a few in particular that I find to be extremely effective in helping to recover the menstrual cycle.

Zinc

Zinc is a critical nutrient to consider, and many nutritionists recommend an increase in zinc intake for female clients struggling with loss of menstruation following the use of the Pill. There is evidence demonstrating that women who take oral contraceptives have lower plasma zinc levels, so they may have higher need for this important mineral for fertility.

Some healthcare practitioners theorize that taking oral contraception might either cause zinc deficiency or even copper overload, which could contribute to the loss of healthy menstrual function. Either way, I always include zinc as part of my recommendations for my clients with amenorrhea.

Zinc can be sometimes difficult to replenish without short term therapeutic supplementation, even in the context of a whole foods diet. If you’re willing to eat lots of shellfish (e.g. oysters and clams), red meat, pumpkin seeds, and poultry, you may be able to avoid supplementing with zinc in this case. I usually recommend 15-30 mg of zinc per day for someone with post birth control syndrome. (If you do supplement, be sure to take it with a meal, otherwise you may get sudden, intense nausea.)

Magnesium

Magnesium is another mineral that I find beneficial for my clients with post birth control syndrome. While many of us in the ancestral health community feel that everyone can benefit from daily magnesium supplementation, it’s especially important for those on birth control (or coming off birth control) to supplement with magnesium.

Magnesium is difficult to get enough of in our modern diets, and some evidence shows that serum magnesium levels are reduced by oral contraceptive use.

If you have a history of birth control use, I recommend using a chelated form of magnesium and taking 200-400 mg daily to supplement what you’re getting from food.

Vitamin B6

Finally, vitamin B6 is another nutrient that is not often discussed but can be very helpful in restoring menstrual function in those with post birth control syndrome. A 2011 study found that those who used oral contraceptives had lower plasma vitamin B6 concentrations, and one type of amenorrhea caused by high prolactin levels was able to be treated using B6 supplementation, suggesting that supplementing with B6 may be beneficial in post birth control syndrome.

Vitamin B6 is found in a variety of foods, and is generally safe to take as a supplement at doses below 100 mg per day. I like Designs for Health’s Sublingual Vitamin B6, which has the added benefit of providing a small amount of chelated zinc. At 50 mg per teaspoon, it’s a high enough dose to replenish any depleted stores, but not so much to risk toxicity with long term use.

Other Nutrients

There are other nutrients that I address with my clients, either making diet or supplement recommendations to address potential deficiencies in their diets. One nutrient that I find tends to be quite low in many of my young female clients’ diets is vitamin A. You can get plenty of vitamin A by eating 4-8 ounces of beef or lamb liver every week, and that’s almost always something I recommend to my clients who are struggling to regain their periods. Another important nutrient is vitamin D, which typically comes from adequate sun exposure but can be helpful as a supplement for those with blood levels below 30 ng/mL.

There are many nutrients that may be negatively affected by long term birth control use, and every person’s needs are unique. If you’re struggling with post birth control syndrome and aren’t sure if your nutrition has been optimized for your recovery, I recommend working with a knowledgable nutritionist who can help assess your diet for possible nutrient gaps.

2. Optimize Your Circadian Rhythms

In our modern world of late night TV, attachment to our cell phones, 24 hour artificial light, and inadequate hours of sleep, our circadian rhythms have taken a serious beating.

Circadian rhythms are physical, mental and behavioral changes that follow a roughly 24-hour cycle, responding primarily to light and darkness in an organism’s environment. People who fly across several time zones experience circadian rhythm disruption as “jet lag”, but even less dramatic shifts in your circadian rhythms can cause significant health problems, including infertility and amenorrhea.

Your circadian rhythms affect all endocrine hormone secretions, including melatonin, cortisol, thyroid stimulating hormone, growth hormone, prolactin, follicle stimulating hormone (FSH), luteinizing hormone (LH), insulin, leptin, and more. (1) While we don’t know how all of these hormones might contribute to healthy menstruation, we do know that prolactin, FSH, and LH are the key hormones regulating the menstrual cycle along with estrogen and progesterone.

So it’s not a stretch to assume that if these hormones aren’t being released at the appropriate times, the reproductive system won’t be getting the proper signals that are needed to regulate the menstrual cycle. And some research does show that circadian rhythm disruption from jet lag and shift work can wreak havoc on women’s reproductive function. (2)

There are dozens of factors that affect circadian rhythms, but I’ll just focus on the two most important: light exposure and sleep. Proper light exposure includes getting adequate daytime sunlight and appropriate elimination of bright light at night. The biggest influence is the light hitting your eyes, so I strongly suggest making an effort to get outside, or at least sit by a window, for most of the daylight hours. On the flip side, you also need to ensure you’re not getting blue light exposure once the sun has gone down.

There are ways you can address this issue even if you can’t go outside during the day or shut off all your lights when the sun goes down. The first is to get a light therapy lamp that can help provide the right spectrum of daytime light during your day, which you can set up at your work desk. The second is to block blue light at night, and the easiest way to do this is by using these super fashionable orange goggles. You can also use orange light bulbs as your evening lighting option.

And of course it should go without saying that you need to prioritize your sleep, going to bed early enough to get a full 8 hours of sleep every night.

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3. Eat Enough Carbs and Calories For Your Activity Levels

This is one of the most difficult recommendations for many of my clients, as frequently those dealing with post birth control syndrome are also trying to lose weight. And more often than not, their weight loss attempt includes reducing their food intake and cutting down on carbohydrates.

While this strategy may help with short term weight loss, it’s definitely not conducive to your hormonal health to significantly limit your food intake in this way. It’s a well known phenomenon in the medical world, called the Female Athlete Triad, where women under eat and overtrain so much that they lose their menstrual function, and even put themselves at risk for osteoporosis.

Stefanie Ruper has written a fantastic article on the problems with being overly restrictive with your food intake, and how dozens of her readers have written to her complaining that they lost their menstrual function when switching to a Paleo diet. She acknowledges that it’s not the Paleo diet that is the issue per se, but that those who switch to Paleo often get stuck in an overly restrictive, low carbohydrate approach that does not support healthy endocrine function through various effects on the HPA axis and thyroid hormone conversion.

I think it’s safe to say that those women dealing with post birth control syndrome should also be wary about how restrictive their diet is, and ensure that they’re getting enough calories and carbohydrates to support their activity levels.

I generally recommend at least 30-40% of calories from carbohydrate for my patients who aren’t getting their period, and provide them an appropriate calorie range for their body size and activity levels. Trying to quickly lose weight while dealing with amenorrhea is rarely a good combination.

And the other side of this issue is avoiding overtraining, which is another problem I see in many of my young female clients trying to “lean out”. As I mentioned, this overtraining and undereating combination is known as the Female Athlete Triad and is well known as a cause of amenorrhea. Overtraining means different things to different people; what might be a normal training schedule for an elite athlete may cause burnout and hormonal disruption in a non-athlete. If you’re dealing with amenorrhea, you need to take a serious look at your training regimen and make sure you’re not overdoing it.

4. Manage Your Stress

This is another big issue for many of my young female clients experiencing amenorrhea. Stress is generally unavoidable in our modern lives, but that doesn’t mean you have to let it disrupt your life and throw off your hormone regulation.

Chronic stress causes hypothalamic‐pituitary‐adrenal (HPA) axis dysregulation, which is also known as adrenal fatigue. (3) Unfortunately, the hypothalamus and pituitary gland are also key regulators of the menstrual cycle. (4) Thus, chronic stress is easily able to cause irregular menstrual cycle activity, and can even lead to a condition known as hypothalamic amenorrhea. This is very similar to what happens in the case of the Female Athlete Triad, and is typically caused by the chronic physical and/or emotional stress that is unfortunately common among young women.

For those trying to overcome post birth control syndrome (or any type of amenorrhea for that matter), getting stress under control is very important. This includes the recommendation above regarding eating enough and avoiding overtraining, but it also deals with managing daily stress from work, relationships, financial issues, and more.

I always tell my amenorrheic clients to find a stress management protocol that works for them, which can include yoga, meditation, journaling, deep breathing, and more. Anything you enjoy doing that helps relieve stress is a great choice, and can make a big difference in your return to normal menstrual function.

5. Boost Your Detox Capacity

Having a strong ability to detoxify is crucial for recovering from post birth control syndrome, as one of the primary issues with taking oral contraceptives for a long period of time is hormonal build up. Your body stores hormones like estrogen in your fat cells, and these stored hormones can linger for months or years after you stop taking the Pill. Your liver is responsible for clearing these hormones through the bile, and if you’re not detoxifying well enough, your liver is ineffective at eliminating these excess hormones.

There are many ways to boost detox capacity – too many to get into in this article – but I’ve written another article in which I recommend increasing intake of certain foods that can help boost hormone clearance. Another option is taking a supplement which contains a variety of nutrients and botanicals that support the body’s natural detoxification process. Liver Detoxifier and Regenerator from NOW Foods is a popular choice.

And wouldn’t you know it, your gut flora can even help you detoxify excess hormones. This podcast I’ve linked to is all about the “estrobolome,” the complete set of bacterial genes that code for enzymes capable of metabolizing estrogens within the human intestine. (5) So taking a high quality probiotic and eating fermented foods, especially fermented cruciferous vegetables like sauerkraut, is an important part of recovering from post birth control syndrome.

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What to Do If You Still Haven’t Gotten Your Period Back

These are my best general recommendations for how to regain your period after stopping birth control, and I’ve used these strategies successfully with many young female clients. It’s important to address all these factors, as any one of them can be enough to disrupt menstrual function, which is a sign of suboptimal health.

Of course, sometimes this isn’t enough to get you back on track hormonally, especially if you were taking birth control for many years, or if you started birth control as a method to address hormone issues in the first place. In this case, you may need some additional testing done to identify any issues that may be causing your amenorrhea. PCOS is a very common condition that can significantly disrupt your hormonal function, so you’ll want to discuss this possibility with your endocrinologist.

And of course working with a knowledgable nutritionist can help you identify the missing pieces in your recovery plan to ensure that you’re doing everything possible to get back your hormonal health and menstrual function.

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Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD
Laura Beth Schoenfeld, RD

Laura Schoenfeld, MPH, RD, is a licensed registered dietitian and women’s health expert trained in Functional Medical nutrition therapy. She assisted in the creation of educational materials for both the ADAPT practitioner and health coach training programs.

Her passion is empowering women to nourish their bodies, develop true strength, and ultimately use their improved health to pursue their purpose. Laura guides her clients in identifying and implementing diet and lifestyle changes that allow them to live a healthy, fit, symptom-free life without being consumed by thoughts of food and exercise. She draws from a variety of sources to form her philosophy on nutrition, including ancestral diets, principles of biochemistry, current research, and clinical experience. Her areas of expertise include women’s hormones and fertility, gut health, autoimmune disease, athletic performance, stress management, skin health, and weight loss. Recognizing that health goes far beyond just diet and exercise, Laura teaches her clients how to focus on and implement life-changing mental and spiritual health habits as well, including changing their thoughts and beliefs to ones that drive health-supporting decision-making around food, fitness, and life in general.

Her greatest mission is to help health-conscious women realize that, while their health is priceless, they are so much more than a body. When she’s not educating and serving her coaching clients and community, Laura loves traveling with her husband, Sundays with her church family, hikes with her dog, beach trips, live music, and strength training.

Professional website: lauraschoenfeldrd.com

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  1. I recently heard some people who have thyroid disease can have absent periods. If you already have had it tested you might want too. It’s just a simple blood test.

    • This can definitely be a factor….this is one of the 43782483920432 blood tests I had drawn. The only ones that my gyno said came back abnormal were FSH and LH. She sent me to an endocrinologist, who then told me they couldn’t be evaluated because I had no cycle….it just goes in circles.

    • Yeah, no luck. I’ve tried all the supplement recommendations I could find and got zero change.

    • I went off birth control in January, my last cycle was Jan 1. I started maca at that time without results and I’m now going into my second month of trying Pregnitude to see if it will help me achieve a regular cycle. I have a friend who has had great success controlling her menopausal issues without having to use prescription hormone treatments with the use of maca though…I’m definitely planning on looking more into the things listed in this article though…

  2. Hi everyone,
    First I want to start off by saying how nice it is to know that I’m not the only person that is experiencing these kinds of things. My fiance and I decided to start trying for a baby last January (2014), so I finished up my pack of pills. 4 days later i got my period, which I would’ve gotten anyways, since then my cycles have varied, the shortest one has been 34 days, and I’m currently sitting at day 70, and I’ve touched anywhere in between (40 days, etc). I’m not sure what is happening. I now have to be put on a waiting list to see a Gynecologist, and I can’t even be put on that list until my partner gets the semen analysis test done. That is very frustrating to me, considering my periods are all over the map, so it’s pretty safe to say that that is the cause for concern with me trying to conceive. It’s very daunting to Google these types of things and get a variety of different answers, some good, some bad. On top of the stress of my abnormal periods I have other issues causing me stress : work, family issues. I’m at my witts end. Every month I get my hopes up thinking that I may be pregnant just to have them dashed.
    I have no idea what to do anymore. Has anyone else suffered anything similar… having periods right after coming off the pill to all of a sudden nothing?

    • I’m having the same issue as you. I’m also trying to conceive. I haven’t had my period in around 70 days as well. I’m on the waiting list to see an gynecologist in March. So hopefully my problems will be solved then. It’s very difficult getting that no from pregnancy test. Especially when all you want is a baby. I hope you find your answers.

      • Also having that issue.. I go to a Dr next week to see if anything can be done or what’s going on

      • Im having same issue as you its been 80 days no period im trying to have a baby 🙁 my dr said its normal but i dont want to wait years

        • If it makes you guys feel any better, I stopped the pill May 2014 and had one period between then and now, but found out um pregnant without ever even getting back to a regular cycle. we had just had an appointment to start fertility treatments all the Dr’s were pretty surprised! Everything is normal so far except they are having a Difficult time pin pointing my due date due to no cycle referenve.

    • Hi ladies – curious how your doc appointments went? I am in the exact same boat! Took the pill for 10 years, came off last July. My husband and I are trying to conceive, but my cycles are all over the board. First 40 days, then 45, then 50, and the last two cycles were 75! Things don’t seem to be normalizing despite my supplements, exercise, and organic/whole foods diet. It took two packs of ovulation tests last cycle, and even then I don’t know that I believed the results! I got the result ‘fertile’ for over a week, when the instructions say that would last about 2 days. Not sure what to do! Would love to hear how you all are getting along.

  3. I cannot be anymore frustrated with this issue. I’ve been off the pill since May 2014. I have been to 3-4 different Drs. and gotten NO help. I’ve tried everything I can think of. My Dr. won’t even start the one year of “trying” until after you have a regular cycle….and I can’t seem to get any help with that so I feel like I’m in this no mans land where I get ZERO HELP. I’m pretty confident at this point that something is wrong. I was finally able to get my Dr. to run some hormone tests last week…they all came in by Friday and she still haven’t gotten back to me. They suspect an endocrine issue maybe….however won’t give me any direction as to if they think it can be resolved etc. etc. I’m pretty type A and I like a plan. I’ve asked three times for a plan on how to approach this and get NO answers. I could not be any more frustrated.

  4. Hi Ladies,

    i never ever share on forums, but I do read them when something happens – like not getting my period back when I got off birth control.

    I was always regular. I got my period at the age of 12, didn’t go on birth control until i was 15. I went off and on in the last 13 years between relationships and to give my body a break (bad idea, unless its for a few months) and again, always went back to normal. Of course, now that i got off in order to get pregnant, nothing. A month went by, 2nd month…3rd month. I was in panic mode. I was eating tofu for estrogen and parsley to get things going. I was going nuts. I saw a homeopath and started taking:
    1. Vitex – agnus castus – 3 pills on empty stomach
    2. 2 x concentrated omega 3 fish oils – 3 on full stomach
    3. Took prenatal every other day, not to overdue my iron, since i had no cycle.

    5 days later, i had my period. I highly recommend #2 and #3. Its all natural, been used to centuries, and I heard from numerous women this has helped them too. So thats that! Now onto baby 🙂

  5. So happy to have found this thread! If anyone has advice I would be so appreciative!

    I was on Depo Provera for 4 years and Seasonal, no sugar pills for a period, for 2 years before. Therefore, I never had a period being on either of these birth controls. My last shot was October of 2012. Should have worn off by January of 2013. By October 2013 I finally had a natural period, for 3 months. My last natural period was January 2014. It is now year later.

    My doctor put me on Provera in October 2014, got a “withdrawl” period. 3 months went by no natural period. I am currently on 10 days of Provera again. I am really hoping this will regulate my cycle again. I had blood testing and ultrasounds and everything came back normal.

    I am not TTC yet but, we would like to in a year, so I would like to get my cycles back! Has anyone had this experience with Depo Provera? Did it really take 2 years or more to get a regular cycle back? The doctors will all tell you that it is not from BC.

    • Hi Kaitlyn,

      Yes! This is almost exactly what I have been experiencing too! I was on Depo for about three years, then got my last shot in March of 2013. I got the Mirena IUD inserted in June of 2013, had terrible side effects, and had it removed in February of 2014. No hormonal birth control since that time, and I have only had two periods that were totally out of the blue. The last real one was in August of 2014, and I had about a day of spotting in December. I went to an OBGYN, and she told me that I shouldn’t be worried, and to give it a little more time. She offered to give me hormones, which I want to avoid if at all possible. I have started doing acupuncture every week to try and address this issue, and was taking chinese herbs for a while, but my body did not react very well. It’s so frustrating! I’m hoping that time will help, but I think I may need to get more serious about changing my diet…
      It is worrisome, and I’m glad to know that I’m not the only one that has been dealing with this problem for so long!

    • Hi I have had the same problem doctor has sent me now for blood test to the mertinaty hospital so frustrating

      • I’ve been through a slew of blood tests, now going for an MRI. After a year of being told it was “normal” I’m not being told that they will not do anything to help without going through the fertility clinic and as a result none will be covered by my insurance. It seems like when you have this issue you get into a circle of no help. I get Drs. that say hey…that’d odd your not getting a cycle we should test your hormones, then they look at the result and say “we can’t evaluate whether these hormones are off because you have no cycle so they can’t be evaluated”…and so I find myself back at the beginning. I’m tired of begging for help and will be going to see the reproductive endocrinologist as soon as possible. It’s clear I will get no help from my regular Dr, Gyno or Endocrinologist.

        • My favorite piece of help I got was from the endocrinologist who said “if you were supposed to have a kid it would happen, I don’t know what else to tell you”…..how helpful and comforting huh?

    • I have been fighting to get my period back for years! After my youngest was born (3/30/09) I did the depo shot at my 6 wk check up and another one 3 mths later (Aug 2009), couldn’t afford the Nov shot so I never got it and never got on another bc. After a couple yrs of not having a period my husband at the time was getting worried cause it wasn’t normal for one to just not appear. So I went to an obgyn in March and was put on Provera for 5 days…nothing happened. I went back 2 mths later (May) and he said from my blood work the from the first visit that the shot was still in my system and asked if we were wanting to get pregnant right then. I said no just want a period back, the pregnancy will happen when it happens. So he said to let it run its course. For the last year I’ve been having light pink spotting once a month that lasts from 3 to 4 days, enough for a thin panty liner. It’s now been 2 years and still no period. I went to a new obgyn (the old one retired) and he was stunned. He put me on birth control pills to see if that’ll help. Well…it hasn’t. I know ur not supposed to miss pills but I’m bad at remembering to take pills. Still no period when it hits the brown ones. New marriage and we’ve talked about having a “love baby” (we’re high school sweethearts, first loves) but me being “broken” is getting old! I’m going back in March or when they can get me in (have to wait for insurance to kick in, Mar 1st) to see about what else can be done. I’m just glad to know I’m not the only one out there.

  6. I know exactly how you all feel! I was on some kind of oral contraceptive for 3 years. Tri Sprintec or something like that. I stopped taking it in November of 2014 because I am not sexually active and heard some stories about how bad bc really is for your body. I am not ttc or anything like that. But have not had a period since the regular withdrawal bleed in November when I went off of it. It is now January of 2015 and still no period. I have tried to induce my period with vitamin c, parsley tea, and baths and no luck!! There’s no way I want a child now but I’m still worried that someday when I do my body will have problems.. Thinking about seeing my doctor. Suggestions?

    • I was taking Sprintec for 3 years and stopped in July 2014… I had a period in Aug and sept, then nothing… I went to doc in Nov and she assured me it would show up. It didn’t. I’m not trying to get preg but I wanted my period… I went to the doc just a week or two ago and he got me on the generic of Provera and thankfully, after taking it for 10 days, and the second after I finished taking them it has shown up. Not sure if it will begin happening every month again, but the doc says I can get refills if it doesn’t. Hate that I resorted to medicine but I can’t keep my stress about it down, but I’m on multivitamins now and I’m gonna try and work on my circadian rhythm… I’m happy to have these to work on and maybe won’t need any refills. I won’t be going back to BC ever. I will say to add, my period is Extremely heavy, and my hunger has increased greatly since the second day of having my period again… The cramping hasn’t been bad though, and I’m not terribly tired till the end of the day. Happy to have it though, which seems weird to say haha!

    • I took that exact same one and I went off of it in May of 2014 and still have no luck having ny period. I don’t want a child right now either, just trying to get my body back on track.I’ve seen three doctors and all suggested it was just stress.

  7. Just wanted to give a few suggestions for those suffering from acne after stopping birth control and also ask some questions: I stopped taking my birth control (after taking it for 6 years) in October 2014. I haven’t had a period since. I just made a Dr. appointment to see if my hormone levels are off. I got on birth control in high school mainly because of acne, I’ve always struggled with it. But now off birth control and taking these supplements, my skin is more clear than it’s ever been. Just wanted to recommend these supplements to anyone who has the same problem because acne is the absolute worst!! EstroBlock tripple strength (find on amazon, supposed to help with fertility, too), fish oil, zinc, vitamin A, and chromemate. I was taking maca root pills but I read that you shouldn’t take them while pregnant. I didn’t want to accidentally become pregnant without knowing and be taking the maca root. Does anyone have any knowledge about these supplements during pregnancy? I like them because they keep my skin clear but I wouldn’t want to harm a baby.

  8. i have stopped taking Minastrin back in September. My period came in November for 4 days(usually it would be 6) then 35 days later for 3 days, now 36 days later for 2…. It’s very frustrating, since we are trying to have a second child. I’m taking vitamins every day, but it seems that doesn’t help much. Does it mean I better go see my GYN?

    • I am the very same as u my doctor doesn’t no what to do going to a gyn now see what they see I have on kid already so no so nice when u are trying for number 2

  9. I wanted to share my story as well. It is so nice to read about other women in my situation because I feel so alone! My husband and I got married this past summer and want a baby right away and it just isn’t happening. I stopped my BC after being on it for 10 years in July and have not had a natural period since. I went to a natural hollistic pharmacist. After performing a saliva test for a month it was found that I do not produce enough progesterone. I used to have an eating disorder so I think that plays a part too. I still am pretty thin but not frail. I’m 5’3 at 105 lbs with a BMI at 18.5. I stayed taking a natural bio-identical progesterone, chaste berry, and vitamin B6. He told me that this should help me regain my period. I also am going to be drinking a lot of vegetable protein powder shakes to gain some lean muscle mass. I also was told that black cohosh can help with regaining one’s period. Anyone take the things I mentioned?

    • So I started taking the zinc vitamin for 2 weeks now so let’s see if my period comes . I also did hear about the black cohosh too. That it’s suppose to start up your period . Never tried it though .. Thinking about drinking the aloe Vera too … Any suggestions?

      • i started the aloe Vera today. Not the black cohosh. I’m hoping the aloe, chaste berry and the bio identical progesterone start to work.

    • Tomorrow I start using Young Living Essential Oils Progessence Plus! It is specially formulated to regulate women’s hormones and help them get back to normal. I’ve been off bc since late august-early September and still don’t have my period:( but this is supposed to really help! Give it a try!

    • I am also trying to get my period back and am using Young Living Essential Oils for it. The oil blend I am using is Progessence Plus which naturally balances the bodys Progesterone levels without all the harm synthetics can do. I got my period back three days after I started using it! It only lasted for a day but that gave me so much hope!! I am continuing to use it along with Clary Sage which also balances hormones and helps you estrogen be healthy:) I would highly suggest using these two, separately or together, to anyone looking to balance their hormones and get their period back! If you want more info please email me at [email protected]:))

    • I read earlier from another that flaxseeds helped her so I’ll try adding that with my breakfast. 🙂

      I’ve been doing acupuncture, but I decided to get off the BC completely after being on it since 2000. It’s been a month ago and this week, nothing yet…

  10. Wow… How could I forget to mention how amazing (or NOT!!) my skin on my back, chest, and face is looking these days. Worst painful zits I’ve ever had in my entire life.

  11. Thanks for all the stories; they helped calm me down tonight. I’m in the same boat… My husband and I wanting a baby but I’m not ovulating & no period since coming off Tricyclyn-Lo last July, 2014. I’ve been to the doc for a high dose of progesterone, which was supposed to spur a period and didn’t, and have also spent a ton of money at a naturopath without results. I’m going to be trying the suggestions in this article… Fingers and toes crossed!!

  12. It’s funny that I was reading this page yesterday and today I have started my period!

    I was on Yasmin for over 5 years and I stopped in September 2014, I had a period 38 days later but I haven’t had another one until today! 3 months without a period had me a little worried about my hormones. I had a blood test and all my hormones were fine but still no period.

    My friend has PCOS and recommended drinking Aloe Vera Juice. I have only been drinking it for 2 days and today I started my period! I’m not sure if it’s a coincidence but I want to tell you all so that you can try too. I bought a 100% aloe vera juice by a brand called Pukka on Amazon but I’m sure you can get 100% from anywhere. Just drink a bit in the morning before breakfast, mix it with cordial if you don’t like the taste.

    Try this ladies! I hope it works for you too x

      • I think the best benefits are helping digestion, anti-inflammation, healthy skin and there’s loads more if you google it too. Like I said though, according to my blood test, I didn’t have any hormonal problems but I still didn’t have a period. After drinking aloe vera in the morning for only 2 days, I got a period! The only thing is, you’re not supposed to drink it while on your period and I’m still on my period so I’m going to try more when it finishes.

        You can also use aloe vera gel on your face as a toner, it can help with acne scars. My skin has gone really bad but I’ve only just started doing this and my face does feel smoother!

        I hope you try some and that it works for you!

  13. Hello ladies !

    Ok I was on birth control for 1 year and ended my full pack in July 2014 . It’s now January 2015.. What do I do ? My husband wants to have a baby . I read online that it can take up to 6 months to get a period back or if not then go see a doctor . I don’t really want to see a doctor . Does zinc really work or vitamin b as stated !?

    • I have the hugest amount of sympathy for you ladies out there who are trying to conceive and such a frustrating thing has happened.

      I came off microgynon after 4 years about 4 months ago and havnt had a period since my normal gap bleed.

      I stopped taking it for a few reasons… firstly because I had noticed during my break my moods had become so horrific that I was acting completely out of character and got to the point where I felt I may not have control over my actions for much longer ( my boyfriend also pushed the matter that I should come off the pill for this very reason -poor chap!)

      2. I had a break through bleed which had never occured before which lead to a massive flare up of a bladder/ urethra problem the doctors have failed to diagnose.

      3. I have become very aware that too much in our modern world has influence over our natural way of being and does a great job of throwing us out of our authentic equilibrium. I gradually removed all the chemical and processed things from my life ( as much as is possible) and it seemed that taking a chemically derived pill that caused physical changes in the functioning of my body, purely as a form of birth control when other less physiologically intrusive methods are available, seemed somehow a very bad idea to me.

      I have to agree with Jen below when she says shed never recomend the pill just soley for birth control.

      I can see now that I had probably been right to think the pill as being quite unfriendly as its caused so much difficulty to so many people, myself included.

      I’m not over worried about not having periods myself because Im not trying to conceive and I figure as long as I’m feeling pretty well, nature will just have to take its course and if I do all I can to help myself along then thats probably better than anything a doctor can prod poke or perscribe… I dont really believe in treating one pill related imbalance with yet another pill unless in extreme circumstances.

      This blog gives excellent advice on this subject, and I love that there seems to be more and more people who are becoming aware that sorting many problems in the body can be done with diet, lifestyle and living more holistically. I’m so glad to find this blog post and see how it has been a help and comfort for many people in similar positions to ourselves.

      Many thanks to you for writing this and all the best to other ladies suffering the post pill plight!xx

    • Hi guys I hope you’re all ok. I just wanted to give you an update as by some miricle I discovered today that I’m pregnant. I had no period so must’ve concurred before getting my period (10 months without one since stopping pill!) and was recently diagnosed with pcos.

      Anyway still very very ear says but I just wanted to update you all.

      Very happy!!

    • Hi everyone! It’s great reading people’s experiences, here’s mine…
      I was on the pill for 12 years. Marvelon 28 for 8 years, seasonal for 4 years. I had stopped the pill for about 3 months after 8 years (before I switched to seasonal), period during which I didn’t get a single period and I got really bad acne (especially bacne). I got scared and decided to go back on the pill but switched to seasonal. I stopped in October (3 months ago)- this time around, after my withdrawal bleeding, I’ve got 2 periods (after approximately 30 days.. Which is pretty regular). However … My periods are VERY light. They last about 4 days… One day or 2 I need a tampon .. But after that just a liner. I used to get fairly heavy periods that lasted 5-6 days so this is a big change for me. Reading all of your experiences I realize that this is a common side effect of stopping the pill. I’m doing a liver cleanse next week, hoping this will help release some of the hormones … I’ll keep you all posted. To control the a be, however, I’m taking Zinc and fish oil everyday – I’m using neutrogena oil free acne face wash (2x a day) and for my body Body Clear body wash + body clear body spray …. These products really helped … My skin is almost completely clear, except for a pimple or two just before my period. Good luck everyone !

  14. I took Yasmin for about 4 years and stopped taking it in December 2013. I haven’t had my period since, and today is January 1 2014!! Has anyone else waited this long?

    • Yes I’m the same I stopped in april snd have had nothing since. Had flight bit if brown discharge though but nothing more. Going crazy with worry!!!

    • I’ve not had it in 9 months. It’s h isn’t it. Dr is talking about prescribing some medication to induce a period and therefore ovulation. Has anyone else had this?

    • I’m having the same problem. I was on Yasmin for over 5 years and I stopped in September 2014, I had a period 38 days later but since then I haven’t had another one. It’s been almost 3 months and my skin is rubbish too 🙁 My blood work says my hormones are fine so I don’t know what to do now. It’s really frustrating, I wish I never went on BC in the first place.

  15. I was on birth control for almost 1 year, then came off of it just fine and had two periods right on time. Then all of a sudden I noticed that my third period (after taking birth control) had not come at all. It’s been about 65 days. I have taken a pregnancy test, but it was negative. During the time that I would have received my period, it was finals week….and my boyfriend broke up with me. I got no sleep at all and I started waking up feeling extremely sick and nauseous. I had to leave class one time because I thought I was going to either black out and fall on the floor or throw up. After finals week I came home and I feel perfectly fine (but still no period.) I am pretty certain aunt flo isn’t here because of the stress… but I keep scaring myself by looking up pregnancy symptoms (like nauseousness and dizziness.) Is it normal to have a few normal periods and then have nothing at all because of getting off birth control? How come my period is still not here?

    • I am in pretty much the exact same boat. Any updates since posting this? I’ve been doing everything I can think of to get it to come. This happened once a few months ago and when I finally got it I was in menstrual agony, but it’s been a few days longer this time and no signs of it coming. I seriously suspect stress is the cause of it but it doesn’t stop me from worrying.

  16. I’ve had regular periods all my life like clockwork. I was on the pill for 8 years and came off in September to try and conceive. It’s been 88 days since that and nothing. OB gave me prometrium to induce a cycle and it didn’t work.. Is this normal?? I’m so worried this means my husband and I won’t be able to conceive or will at least struggle :(.

    • Hi Charlotte. I had to take two rounds of provera before I got a period (when I started, my Estrogen levels stayed around 15). Don’t worry just yet. Your body may just need some time to reset everything. Best of luck!

      • I was taking Yaz starting Jan 2014 and I haven’t had my period now for a year. I stopped taking Yaz 1 month ago. I have not had intercourse, so I cannot be pregnant. This is really just weirding me out.

  17. Do you know the reason behind no periods after the pill? Is it low estrogen?

    I have my periods but very very short and light. It’s been 3 cycles since I went off the pill and according to the lab results my estrogen is very very low. Is that normal?

    • I don’t know what the cause is…but they keep just saying its ‘normal.’ I’m jealous that your Dr. is willing to run labs. Mine won’t do ANYTHING until after a year.

      • Ah that’s so annoying. They should do tests to see if everything is normal hormone wise. Saying that mine was normal and I pestered them to get a scan…, had it today and they said one overy is polycystic.

  18. I am getting so frustrated with this process and am always comforted by this blog that I am not alone. Off the pill since May…I had no sign of a period at all until I had one in September. After that nothing. Prior to September I had consulted my Dr. who told me it was normal, to continue waiting and to reduce my exercise and gain a little weight. I was so sure when I got my cycle in September that I was moving in the right direction and now I am back to frustrated. Due to my husband and I’s careers its important for us to not conceive in certain months of the year, the longer this takes the more impossible the process seems. I went back to the Dr. about two weeks ago..they say the same thing its “normal” and they aren’t willing to do any bloodwork or ultrasounds until January.

    • Hi Cait I comple understand. I’m in a similar boat. Stopped yasmin in april and no bleed since the initial one after pill. It’s been 7 months. Dr told me to put on some weight and exercise less. I’ve been making a real effort to do this along with taking lots of vitamins etc.
      had some blood tests few weeks ago and sll come back clear….. Going out of my mind!

      • So frustrating! I have been having bad acne since my period started to disappear while on the pill and its gotten slightly better but has not gotten back to normal at all. I’m trying to get in with a dermatologist and maybe at least make progress on some issue, but a lot of the time their solution is to take meds that you can’t take while pregnant so that isn’t practical at the moment either. I can tell my hormones are out of whack because I am generally not a crier or super emotional and I am a DISASTER. Poor hubby…lol

        • When I went off birth control I was also super emotional and crying all the time (which I never do!). They did a blood test and found out that I had really low levels of progesterone. Low progesterone can cause anxiety, fearfulness, etc. You might want to consider getting your progesterone level checked. I just started on an herb called Vitex and it’s already helped with my acne. It is also supposed to help your body return to a normal cycle. Good luck!

            • Very interesting! I have been an emotional disaster for sure, which is totally out of character for me. I’m going to e-mail the Dr. today to give her an update….still no period….but I have been spotting for like 8 days now….maybe something is starting to work lol

    • Oh poor you, I sympathise, I’ve never had acne but since stopping the pill I’ve had so many breakouts, my chin is constantly covered with pissy spots

      • Went back to the Dr. to discuss the acne issue and Dr. wanted to check my thyroid and calcium. All came back normal. I’ve pretty much given up that we’ll ever had a baby. Dr’s show ZERO concern and just continue to say its normal its normal. Won’t even think about looking into fertility issues until after I 1. have a regular cycle and 2. have been “trying” for over a year….which by their definition is impossible without a regular cycle. I just don’t see it happening.

        • Hi Cait,

          TRY Dong Quai 500dose 2 a day, it worked for me. It’s totally safe, they sell it in all health shops.
          I also took fertility/conception vitamins alongside like the ones with folic acid, minerals and omega3 you take for conception all combined in one tablet, not just folic acid.
          I took both for 3 months (although Dong Quai you only take for a specific time each month-NOT all the time).

          I never got my periods back to normal (5 days) but they became slightly heavier and I got pregnant after 3 month of this ‘therapy’. During that time I also cut down on sweets and alcohol almost completely.

          Regarding the doctor, it’s worth lying you’re tying for over a year now. He cannot dispute the fact of you trying for baby because you don’t have periods. That’s ridiculous.

          Good luck,

          • Thanks so much! my concern with Don Quai is that isn’t that the one you can only take for a certain portion of your cycle? I literally have NO idea on my cycle because I’m not getting one so I worry I would only make things worse. I’m so glad that you were able to get pregnant! I’m hoping we’ll be in the same boat soon. Dr. said she will run more labs come January to check hormone levels and do an ultra sound to rule out PCOS.